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I am officially divorced and single.

I don’t know how to feel at the moment...

I know it’s not my fault, but so much blame and abuse was put onto me that I am just a mixed bag of emotions. I don’t know what to do.

x0x0,

☠️-Sid-☠️

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sid:
@big_n3rd ironically, I am originally from the town in RI that Family Guy’s town is based on. You can literally see the same skyline of Providence from nearby my mom’s house. I don’t miss it very much. I just miss my cousins and extended family mostly.
big_n3rd:
Huh, well they growm them pretty there near that skyline
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I had my mediation with the ex. I think I came out on top. I’m glad I kept fighting for my rights and while it’s not a golden ticket by any means (not that I wanted one, I just wanted to survive with roof over my head), but I like to think I got what I needed, and that’s what’s important.

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10

Things are tough. I’m upset because I was supposed to be in Chicago at C2E2 this weekend, but the “ex” and I have a settlement hearing on Monday, so I couldn’t go work like I was supposed to. I was actually invited by the con as a guest, and I’m so upset that 2 years in a row, I couldn’t be there due to The...
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cripplethreat:
I'm really glad that I could help. I'm sorry you had to cancel being on the panel. I know you were really looking forward to it. Oh, and I love that skunk on your wall!
sid:
@cripplethreat Oh, I got him from tee turtle because I work at a lot of the same cons they’re at. I have a sloth one too. The one next to that is Tentacle Kitty. Same situation. They give me a new lanyard every comic con season and hook me up with the newest adorable lil guy they have. I also backed a kickstarter of their’s, so I have little kitty octopi that match each of my kitties. I also collect Dragon Puppets from different cons/the Renaissance Festival here. Those are rather expensive, but I have one that’s worth a lot and looks like a real owl. They can move their heads, some can move their wings, they look super realistic! I blame my friend who worked for the dragon company for how I ended up with more than one of those guys!
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Tomorrow (Jan. 27th) marks the 16th year that my first set went live on SuicideGirls. Who knew that the thing I decided to do at 19 was going to be a commitment that lasted? I have met some amazing people here (and some who turned out to be not-so amazing, for those of you who don’t know I am referring to the divorce I’m in...
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sid:
@jfcrocodile both of my almost ex’s (my sort of former stepsons) kids are adults living on their own. They were in elementary school when we got married, not that they came to our wedding or met me until they were teenagers. Father of the year. Glad that I can’t have my own kids because if I had one with him, things would be so much worse.
beardedpancakered:
Most women age like fine wine miss, and you look to be a right proper vintage. Don't sell yourself short. Myself on the other hand, I age like milk. 😂😂😂
10

So, I’m moved in. My animals are getting used to the new surroundings. To my surprise, the cats, especially the Bengal, who is kind of vengeful when it comes to being in odd situations and tends to pee on things out of spite, but she’s been going in the litter box with not a single accident! I’m seriously surprised she’s making things so easy. The...
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cripplethreat:
Yay, new place! <3
sid:
@littlejohn22 I’m not really a huge fan of the east coast since I grew up there.
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cripplethreat:
Yes, I read about this awful mess on your gofundme.  I'm glad you were able to move to a safe place. How are your fur babies doing now? How are you doing right now?
sid:
@cripplethreat I’m not doing so well right now. I’m desperate. I don’t have mine for next month’s rent and I can’t figure out where or how I am going to get it. I went to the domestic violence center today because they were supposed to help me, but I left there feeling worse than before.
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1) financial help so I can get a P.O. Box so if worse comes to worst, I can still get mail.

2) to be able to move out of this condo via an actual decent settlement and financial support for my rent and bills.

3) (prob most important to me) my pets to be safe and with me. I keep crying over worry for their...
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littlejohn22:
Number 10 is something we all should do and you have such fantastic legs and rock in those heels. Such a beauty, Shine on you crazy diamond