"your awesome, anyone would want to date you, just got to give the lucky few a chance."

*You're :P

Don't believe rubbish like this either. Human beings, while capable of being loving, generally are not loving to anyone and everyone. We all have our tastes and desires for people we want to be around. For dating? There has to be that chemistry. If you feel the chemistry towards someone, they have to feel it back. If they don't feel it back, then so be it.

Ultimately when it comes to approaching someone you wish to date, that's all it comes down to, to seeing if they feel any chemistry back. If the answer is no, oh well, rejection is NOT going to kill you. If anything, but thankful for their honesty, I've dated a gal once who apparently just dated me because she was lonely, not because she liked me. It was one of those horrible relationships where nothing went right. Thank goodness I got a pair and ended it myself.

All you have to do is ask. That's all there is to it, just ask. "Hey, want to grab some coffee later?" Something simple like that, something small where you can talk to each other and get to know each other more.

Ask. What do you have to lose?

Theres a girl i work with I like, spoke to someone a few weeks ago and was told her name, how old she was and asked if she was single or not. I meant to ask her last week, but due to someone not coming in, i ended up doing something other than what i intended to, and everytime that i saw her, she was busy talking to some other people she works with; so i didnt. Spoke to one of the guys she works with that night, and told him to ask her to speak to me (last night); being a day they were both in next.

Went in last night, saw neither hide nor hare of the guy till after 10 and had already asked her, saw her sweeping the floor near where i asked and thought "what do i have to lose", went to her and just said, "can i ask you something, do you want to get dinner sometime". Straight off, it was a bit "errr..." then it became okay, but i'm not very outgoing. "thats fine, neither am i". She took my number and said she'd text me when she got home, and did, as i saw talking to the guy she works with.

Got to organise something with her, but not sure when to text her. Bit tricky as i know shes at college somedays, but i'll probably text her about 5ish, before shes at work, must be after college as well..

Honestly, what do you lose out by not asking. If she says no, you dont lose anything, if she says Yes...then Wooo!

Dating me a bit.... Son of Svengoolie....