it's a relative safe assumption that one's 'friends' are dumbasses when they call at 1am... to bitch that one of the reasons their wife is divorcing them is that they f'd around on them - WITH an ex-g/f of mine who they f'd around with while I was dating the ex-g/f
and THEN expected me to sympathize AND that I'd have a place they could stay for awhile... *yeesh* :(