I hope it didn't seem like I was implying that you were stupid- if it did, I genuinely apologize as was not my intention. I do agree with the notion of wishing people could just let others be. Life is full of enough problems without having to navigate the misdeeds of others and how their consequences might impact you. I, too, tend not to want to meet anyone new, but probably for a entirely different reason lol- I'm just not a huge fan of people as a whole- we do unspeakable things to our world and the creatures in it, nevermind what we do to each other. We're a sad, conflicted, oppressive, calloused bunch...