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It's been a long while since I've posted, had a lot happen in between. Started school which has been cool, broke up with the girl I was dating, got a mohawk, didn't get a tattoo, god rid of the mohawk and here I am.

So glad to see Nixon post new stuff, it was a nice set to come back to. Good gravy!

Positive Erotica vs. Opressive Pornography: thoughts

Defining what is Positive Erotica and what is Opressive Pornography is a little difficult. Positive Erotica could be SG, but what makes it positve? No hard sex (oral, anal, intercourse)? A higher degree of control from the models? More emotion in the photograpy (as subjective as such a proclamation can be)? Is Playboy opressive?

What is opressive pornography? Porn...
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So the tattoo didn't workout. The artist and I had a disagreement of mamouth proportions at the last minute. Miscommunication is a motherfucker. It boiled down to the fact that we both had different ideas about how long I'd be sitting and that this discrepancy was a bigger deal than I had thought it would be. So well, c'est la vie, mais non?

So I'm...
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Getting inked today, stage one of huge fucking back mural. Looking forward to the experiance.

The piece is a Pheonix, it'll eventually stretch from my shoulders down past my ass onto my upper thigh. I'm getting from my shoulders to my lower back done today, so it's a big step but it'll be a good step. I'm really looking forward to it. w00t.

On a...
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Got into a car accident on 395 today, rear ended some donkey while trying to change lanes. My lower back is a massive spot of owwie, so I couldn't stay at Alchemy that long tonight Fear not however, I've taken a Lorcet so now I'm waiting the 30 minutes for insta-bliss to set in. Hopefully it'll allow my muscles enough time to relax and work...
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So the new tattoo projet is slated for August 8th 1:00pm. I've already got two but in the time leading up to getting tattooed I always find the occasion for pause and reflection.

A lot of people (read: parents) always warn that tattooing is a permenant alteration to your body and that we all should really consider what we're doing before we decide to go...
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It's been quite a while since I've posted. New Tattoo set for August 8th, sitting 1/4.

In a relationship now, a poly relationship at that. Sort of odd really, I always resented my mom for being in numerous poly relationships now I find myself in a similar position. Albeit without a small child to raise.

First threesome, that was interesting. Myself, another gentleman and our...
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Today began the second day of negotiations with my BDSM Dom. I have known her socially for a few months, she's dating a good friend of mine.

Having been raised in both the 'vanilla' and 'kink' worlds it's pretty funny to reflect on what is appropriate and accepted within each. For example, in the 'vanilla' world having an intimate sexual experiance (minus intercourse or oral...
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Haven't updated in a while, so here goes. Had my first public BDSM scene this past Saturday at a party here in NoVA. It was really great, my partner was someone I've known for a while and I was really able to put a lot of trust in her, so much that I was able to bottom.

In other news, I found out that I'm...
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Finally got shit sorted out with my Dad (Biological father as opposed to currently married to my Mom). I'm thankful we were able to talk and just sort shit out. I was planning on going to Goodwill to buy a peice of furnature and just hack on it all day long, but I was so relaxed after the conversation I just slept in until 3:30pm....
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Did anyone else see the all girl episode of Monster Garage? [Boston Accent] OH MY FREAKIN' GHOD THOSE CHICKS WE'RE WHICKED HOT [/Boston Accent].

Seriously, tough girls have always been attractive, tough _tattooed_ girls have always been a wet dream. Lord have mercy, I'm still chilling my loins from that episode. If the powers that be at SG can convince some of those girls to...
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So, there's this girl (as every good guy story starts.)

Been crushing on her since 6th grade, she's my best friend, got into the industrial scene because of her, started clubbing because of her, put a lot of time and effor into her, I even make her art. And, as most of you probably can sense by now, she doesn't dig me in that way....
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