After losing what seemed like almost everything...I was able to steady my ground and gain a bit of yardage this year. I got tired of the dead end job jerk around so I went back to school after I realized my most recent venture was working in reverse, Again. "Out for blood" like a Vampire now...last week of externship, next week, then I...
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missdevhill:
@franie I have no clue. At this rate maybe summer :/ I have a small pt job at a call center till I can be settled
franie:
That's good you found something at least semi-stable until you can get going on what you really want to do.
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Tried to fake it but even I wasn't convinced by my efforts...Last day of the year and I still want to be out for blood. Forgiveness should be high on my list of resolutions in 2019 but it's not & wasn't the year before either. Idk how I'm gonna get through this next year jobless & full of hate.... I...
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littlejohn22:
I have an ear to rebound things off if you need it, but professional help can be an asset. I hope work finds you and forgiveness as well.... Shine on you crazy diamond
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Physical attraction - Thought I had it but I guess it slipped away. It probably was just another polar opposite, anyway. Can't get over the thought of my love someday walking into my line of site when I least expect it... & me just waving him on by like, idc.

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missdevhill:
Don't get me wrong :) It takes allot for me to get there...I mean, yeah, there are pretty petty people everywhere & I know I get side eye :/ but I would prefer all those things mentioned, over just having something nice to look at. I fall  infatuated with interesting people way to easily, I guess & the feeling seems to always fizzle out :( just thought I had something this time, that's all. Being on SG maybe makes it appear that I'm someone that shares herself easily...reality is I'm extremely reserved - like, I should be wearing a habit.
jaytee78:
Main thing is to love yourself. I think a lot of people use this site as an outlet for their inner person. As an example, I'm a very shy, quiet, reclusive and solitary person who has very few friends, but on here, I can be a lot more open and be person who I am behind the quiet mask. ❤️
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In a funk (as usual) & I'm trying to do at least on memorable thing daily...checked in with work, swept my living room & picked up BK....oh! Haven't been able to find my glasses in a few days so I ordered 2 more pairs for the year. I should do laundry today and hit club4448 before 7pm. Looking forward to when I will be able to walk around the block with Purdy the Pitoodle.

littlejohn22:
oh, this reminds me I have stuff in the dryer
wade1987:
at least you look happy, and comfy, and chores are no fun
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Dland bound :) today in Anaheim

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padre:
How was your adventure?
missdevhill:
I hope to go back soon. Single rider status is the best
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....lots of questions & no answers.

Why can't I just be happy & in love with something already? Wabisabi imperfections have always been the best.

It never used to be this difficult before.... Before what, though? I never used to have such standards. I all but have blinders on now and I still can't focus.

Fixated on perfection, as I seek a balance...
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pointman11:
That balance is a difficult one. I battle that to. I see others around me who can do that so easily but I can' figure out why. You are not alone in this. Hopefully that can ease a little bit of isolation. In regards to him... You are an incredible woman and a man would be honored and blessed to have you in his life. He does exist. He is out there.  I am sure tgast there us a man looKing for exactly that in a woman. I know I do. He will find you and you him.
missdevhill:
Posting on SG helps. Thank you for always accepting me. I hope I never want to stop