I've noticed something.
I used to get a bazillion comments every day, no matter what I posted.
I've been trying to figure out where everyone went, and then it hit me.
Nobody wants to comment unless I am a) single, b) depressed, c) single and depressed, d) single and horny.
Now that I have a boyfriend and am happy at least 75% of the time, most people have fallen into the woodwork. The Usual Suspects are still posting like crazy, which is great, but I miss hearing from the rest of you. I still enjoy flirting, I still enjoy witty conversation, and I still enjoy having you as friends.
I'm sorry I can't be as available and suicidal as I was before. I'm sorry if you preferred single, unhappy Sorcha. I am not, however, sorry that after years of that, I'm happily dating someone. I deserve this, dammit.
I guess I'm just weird. I don't comment on everyone's journal every day, but I comment on all sorts of entries, whether they are happy, sad, a report of that person's day, a list of questions, etc. I comment on my boyfriend's journal, even though I talk to him pretty much every day.
I don't know. Maybe I'm just reading too much into this, but I miss trilobyte, atrasties, bean, rickroyal and countless other guys who seem to have lost ALL of their interest in me now that I have a guy.
That sucks. I'm not one to give up my male friends when I'm in a relationship, so it saddens me to think they pulled away willingly. I need my friends just as much as I need my lover because you were a part of me before I met him. You help make me who I am.
I love you all.
I used to get a bazillion comments every day, no matter what I posted.
I've been trying to figure out where everyone went, and then it hit me.
Nobody wants to comment unless I am a) single, b) depressed, c) single and depressed, d) single and horny.
Now that I have a boyfriend and am happy at least 75% of the time, most people have fallen into the woodwork. The Usual Suspects are still posting like crazy, which is great, but I miss hearing from the rest of you. I still enjoy flirting, I still enjoy witty conversation, and I still enjoy having you as friends.
I'm sorry I can't be as available and suicidal as I was before. I'm sorry if you preferred single, unhappy Sorcha. I am not, however, sorry that after years of that, I'm happily dating someone. I deserve this, dammit.
I guess I'm just weird. I don't comment on everyone's journal every day, but I comment on all sorts of entries, whether they are happy, sad, a report of that person's day, a list of questions, etc. I comment on my boyfriend's journal, even though I talk to him pretty much every day.
I don't know. Maybe I'm just reading too much into this, but I miss trilobyte, atrasties, bean, rickroyal and countless other guys who seem to have lost ALL of their interest in me now that I have a guy.
That sucks. I'm not one to give up my male friends when I'm in a relationship, so it saddens me to think they pulled away willingly. I need my friends just as much as I need my lover because you were a part of me before I met him. You help make me who I am.
I love you all.