Seeing people blame it on "guys are trash", "girls are trash" is so sexist and unhelpful.

Here is the most important thing I found that I hope is helpful to others. Keep in mind, dating prospects change throughout your life and your situation. That aside, the best thing you can do to be successful is decide what your target mate/type is and focus on being their type. If you aren't your type's type, you have the wrong target. If you are upset that the type of guy/girl you want doesn't want/notice you. You are not your type's type and you have 4 choices. Complain/blame them, try to change them, make yourself their type, change your target. Only one of these choices will get you that person. Dating is similar to job hunting; everyone places a 'value' on the person they're interacting with but many approach dating with the idea that "I set my own value" and it is generally greatly inflated. They will stay single or be unhappy.

Be willing to work on yourself, be introspective, talk and listen to people. Girls/Guys want different things and they change depending on where both are in their life. There as statistics tied to all of these things as well that help us focus on what is "likely". Have an open mind, don't be afraid to try new ways :)

I think that I am a bit inconsistent! Going out and being in people's presence is how you meet someone new. Though I have had some pretty difficult financial problems this year, I still think that I should have attended more things and simply had enough audacity (courage) to ask women for their phone numbers.

To my credit, I do this! Still, as I stated already, I do it inconsistently. I feel that Rumi was right to tell everyone that "What you are seeking is also seeking you."

I think that we can all imagine a beautiful woman or handsome man telling us after we walk away to someone nearby, "I wish this conversation would continue! Isn't that person interested in me at all?" In other words, we just needed to spend a bit more time, paying attention to cues like no longer making eye contact (no interest in the other person) as honest indications that it cannot go further, but at the same time, if your ideas matter to the other person, it is interest.

I guess we have all been there, but correct me if I am wrong!

@cheshire_ @samihain

I’ve woke up in the morning and had someone say, “That thunderstorm was nuts last night!”
Me: “There was a storm last night?”

Them: “The house was shaking…”

Maybe it’s the energy it gives off or something