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loksy

Hi!
I'm actually finishing my sexology in University, so if anyone has a question, I'd be glad to revise my learnings with all of you! I kind of enjoy the counseling!!! And some say I'm good! So be free to ask anything!!

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narcissistzero:

SailorFrank said:
This time I disagree with NZ, I know it's rare but it does happen.



Actually, you don't really! I thought I was being obvious that I was fucking around with her last night, but I guess I was too tired to apply to appropriate sarcasm.

The main thrust of hedonism as I understand it is in that wiki entry, maximizing pleasure while minimizing pain, which with a tweak or two can also be called social choice theory, and is pretty much the strongest theory I know of to describe human behavior.
sailorfrank:
Bah fuck, well it happened in another thread somewhere.

I'm not focusing my application of hedonism on the sexual aspect. At least it's not my intention... I imparted a great deal of power to the emotions of a new relationship and how I want my partners to be able to feel that without guilt negating it and causing resentment.

Compersion isn't about just sexual pleasure it's about pleasure and happiness in general.

On getting a libido back... well... sometimes you can get turned on by an idea more than a physical sensation or visual observance... perhaps you should start exploring yourself and find out what dark hidden things might turn you on.

Nicole Powers: Gary Numan: The Pleasure Principle

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missy

The Pleasure Principle is an album that's provided its maker, Gary Numan, with both instant and delayed gratification. Three decades ago, when the now classic electro album first came out, it made a massive impact culturally and commercially. The Pleasure Principle, and the iconic single it spawned,...
brad_warner:
Great interview. I've been a Numan fan for a long time. It's great he's still doing his thing.

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Aug 1, 2006 by jackiealexis
The Fifth House
House of Pleasure

The Fifth House is commonly referred to as the House of Pleasure. Oftentimes, pleasure is the result of a creative act. The simple act of creating is, essentially, giving of oneself and making something -- making another? Yes, the Fifth House does speak to procreation and children, but it also addresses the creation of art and culture. The creative...
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Saturday Sep 21, 2002

Sep 21, 2002 by drzaius_
The world is ruled by pleasure. Not necessarially pleasure in the sexual sense, but in the everyday things that people do. A Buddhist monk can find pleasure in meditating, a sculptor finds pleasure in molding and shaping clay, a photographer in capturing the image of a beautiful landscape or a beautiful figure.
Life without pleasure is pointless.
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Saturday Dec 07, 2002

Dec 7, 2002 by rawkstar92
Song of the day, thanks to the tasty Rufus Wainwright.

I don't want somebody to love me
just give me sex whenever I want it
cause all i ask for is instant pleasure
instant pleasure instant pleasure
You in the traffic for all eternity
how could that speed be where you wanna be
say don't you really want instant pleasure
instant pleasure instant pleasure
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My belief is that life is about pleasure. One of the great pleasures is eating and drinking, which I do a lot of. But one of the other great pleasures is looking in the mirror and loving the way you look and feel. I’m so sick of having to constantly pick between which of these pleasures I want more. I wish I could have both...
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