if we're strangers, yes, I may say something respectfully relating to your physical sex ( darlin', sir, etc ) - if it bothers you, then calmly & respectfully say your name... or just smile and nod. if we ever meet & converse again, then you can bring up your social sexuality...
...if you respond with hostility or absurd irrationality, then I will respond in kind - and, yes, you react over the top, there is a possibility I'll jibe and continue hinting how absurd your reaction was to my respectful mention... social sexuality is not a visible, physical is
