suispud1

True, and good point. For the house, it is "one task to another" for me at the moment. I do my work, then leave and go "home." I spend some time there and it feels so ... "empty." I imagine being quite lonely there by myself. Though it will be an adjustment to having kids around (nearly all the time) for the first time in two years. I don't even really think I would mind that much.

I guess, if I can get the ex-wife off my back, then things will play out on their own. Oh, and my parents will find out SOME time that the gf is living with me! Not looking forward to THAT conversation either!!

Thank you, i know... you guys/gals are awesome. I don't feel fine but i know i will be.. and i do trust you and don't doubt you... just me :/ Ahhhh life, aint she wonderful...