suispud1

I love the questions you ask. Basically b/c I love that you THINK.

IMHO, it is always better to have LOVED and to have been loved. Period.

Because I think, philosophically, we all *lose* in the end, as life is something of a "terminal condition" for everyone, no? As no one really "makes it out alive" right? So the "losing" part is almost a "given" that everyone will experience at one point at another.

So that being considered then, the key would be: best to love, and be loved. In my opinion. Take risks for love. Seek love. Be open to love. Don't turn love away. Don't be judgmental about the forms in which it comes. I could go on all day.....