so last night i still wasnt sure about where we stood on the poly relationship and whether or not i was allowed to start dating others. She asked what i thought on the situation, which i agreed the night before we did need to discuss it fully and not rush into it, however we had pretty much layed the groundwork down, and really this is something we are going to have to learn as we go. So we both agreed that as of last night we were in a poly relationship together, she is now allowed to see other guys and i am allowed to see other girls, with rules of course, but as of now everything has been set in motion. I am kind of excited to see where this direction takes us, but at the same time im going to have to get used to the idea i am allowed to see and sleep with other girls, i know its not just about sex, its about relationships as well but still i am going to have to get used to the fact its allowed 