Sometimes, sometimes i do feel embarassed to be male. We have all the power to be much better then we are but we chose not too. We opress, we belittle, we destroy, we kill, we enslave, we ignore and fail to realize we have had someone there alongside us for the longest time who wishes us only the best.
Women.
A person so close yet so far from us in terms of understanding and being that it boggles the mind. For as long as we can remember, our mind and conciousness of humanity itself, we men have failed our sisters in how we treat and percieve them. I too, have been the victem of such small thoughts at times, but i am proud to say i have come thousands of miles in putting women in their place; as our equals.
Friends, lovers, mothers, daughters, sisters, cousins, work-parnters, bosses.
They fit all these roles, and enable humanity to exist how it does today. The strenght, nurturing, kind loving spirits of our female companions; who ask so little, but willingingly give SO much to us.
I admire them so much, in no matter what walk of life they choose to take , from prostitute to president; the woman is a role model for us men to follow. Now dont get me wrong, im not a slave to a woman, i wont let her control , manipulate or destroy me; She still has to earn my respect, and respect herself for that bridge of trust to be there, but in the larger enitiy of their being; all women are held on my pedestal.
Respect, understanding, communication; BOTH parties need this for one another, and we men need to more aggresivly give women these quailities that we owe, for the benifit of all.
Once we do this, man and woman can; as we should of been, go walk hand in hand -together- into the future.
-Torie Patterson
"Espirit of Spirit"
Women.
A person so close yet so far from us in terms of understanding and being that it boggles the mind. For as long as we can remember, our mind and conciousness of humanity itself, we men have failed our sisters in how we treat and percieve them. I too, have been the victem of such small thoughts at times, but i am proud to say i have come thousands of miles in putting women in their place; as our equals.
Friends, lovers, mothers, daughters, sisters, cousins, work-parnters, bosses.
They fit all these roles, and enable humanity to exist how it does today. The strenght, nurturing, kind loving spirits of our female companions; who ask so little, but willingingly give SO much to us.
I admire them so much, in no matter what walk of life they choose to take , from prostitute to president; the woman is a role model for us men to follow. Now dont get me wrong, im not a slave to a woman, i wont let her control , manipulate or destroy me; She still has to earn my respect, and respect herself for that bridge of trust to be there, but in the larger enitiy of their being; all women are held on my pedestal.
Respect, understanding, communication; BOTH parties need this for one another, and we men need to more aggresivly give women these quailities that we owe, for the benifit of all.
Once we do this, man and woman can; as we should of been, go walk hand in hand -together- into the future.
-Torie Patterson
"Espirit of Spirit"
It is entirely possible to view a naked , erotic woman; ie strip clubs and the like and still respect her as who she is and what she looks like. More effect on the viewers part must be given to remember that she is a human being with her own mind, fears and desires. Educating yourself on her art and who she is makes respecting her easier and enjoying what she is doing better.
I am an avid erotica and strip club visitor; voyuer. At the same time i appreciate what the girls do and hold them to high esteem for doing so, also understanding some of the girls dont respect themselves and fall prey to nefarious men. ( and women ) These girls i care for and given the oppurturnity try to understand what makes them feel so little of themselves. I dont try to save them no, but give them insight on someone who does respect what they do.
I remember there was this one strip club in nashville i frequented; and began to be recognizable to the girls and management staff, and i earned a well place among them. Free door fees, halved admission prices when appropriate, free drinks and discounted lap dances i began to enjoy due to how i treated the staff, the girls and how i presented myself.
There were three girls in particular that -really- got to know and like me, its amusing to see their face light up when i came and they recognized me. I cant wait until i can find another strip club to settle down and and make a name for myself.
-Torie Patterson