My Perspective on Lovemaking
When you're pleasing a woman, you have to block out everything else.. You have to block out all thoughts of your own pleasure. Forget about your own orgasm.
But, my female interlocutor objects, "then you go soft and she thinks your not having a good time."
This is not true, because that is not controlled by conscious processes. The need for conscious focus is a sign of a lack of genuine attraction.
I've found that if I completely submerge myself into pleasing a woman, I will actually get no small pleasure out of it, As I please a woman I can appreciate her beauty in all the small, small details and the intimate parts of her body, It is a time to learn, to explore her body, to sneak around every last inch. It is the time discover every erogenous zone, both those known to her and those not.
Sex is a lot like lot like jazz. I was once told that sex is nothing more than communication with our bodies. Jazz requires mastery of instrument and technique, with that remarkable ability to improvise. During sex - even vigorous sex - a brush of fingers in just the right spot can have the effect of playing a half key up..
When you're pleasing a woman, you have to block out everything else.. You have to block out all thoughts of your own pleasure. Forget about your own orgasm.
But, my female interlocutor objects, "then you go soft and she thinks your not having a good time."
This is not true, because that is not controlled by conscious processes. The need for conscious focus is a sign of a lack of genuine attraction.
I've found that if I completely submerge myself into pleasing a woman, I will actually get no small pleasure out of it, As I please a woman I can appreciate her beauty in all the small, small details and the intimate parts of her body, It is a time to learn, to explore her body, to sneak around every last inch. It is the time discover every erogenous zone, both those known to her and those not.
Sex is a lot like lot like jazz. I was once told that sex is nothing more than communication with our bodies. Jazz requires mastery of instrument and technique, with that remarkable ability to improvise. During sex - even vigorous sex - a brush of fingers in just the right spot can have the effect of playing a half key up..
suri:
sexy indeed!!
katieokiedokie:
um.. WOW..that's all I have to say.. wow