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The idea that honesty is the best policy is true. It always has been and always will be. You’ll be much happier if you are honest with your roommates about your needs. If you find that you can’t stand having an unwelcome guest spending days on end at your place, speak up! Your roommate problems won’t go away if the other parties aren’t aware there’s an issue. Of course, you should be wise in approaching the conversation. Don’t barge into the room and demand that the guest leave. Find a time when it’s just the two of you to bring up the issue.Start with a line like, “Hey, your boyfriend has been here a few days now and while I like him, the situation is becoming inconvenient for me. I’d really like it if he left soon so it can be just us again.” Have a list of reasons why the guest has caused distress. Be open to questions and prepare for your roommate to get defensive. Be the calm one in the situation and you’ll carry no fault. That’s not to say you should turn into a noodle–be assertive.The danger of confronting your roommate is that the situation could get complicated. You may ask that their boyfriend or girlfriend comes over less, but that vagueness could lead to a plethora of additional questions.How much less? Should I be worried when he or she does come over? Will it be uncomfortable when he or she stops in? Avoid being vague and give options or suggest compromise. For example, you could propose that the guest stay every other night or that your roommate go to the boyfriend or girlfriend’s apartment a few times a week.Furthermore, let your roommate know that you don’t necessarily dislike the guest (as long as it’s true); you just didn’t sign the lease with this person.

lots of good advice! one of my tricks is to write a letter or email to them if they keep storming off and won't let you say everything you want. it also helps me organize all of my thoughts in a calm environment so i can get everything down i want to say without them interrupting me and trying to side track the conversation. often in a verbal discussion i will forget to mention a lot of stuff i wanted to say, if you white or type it you can read it a couple times and make sure you got everything down. i also notice most people get a lot less mad/confrontational if they read a letter as opposed to a face to face discussion.  you cant argue with a letter lol! the worst they can do is not finish reading it if they start getting mad, but for me people read the entire thing before reacting. 

Sounds good I would love to join you!!!!!

Shit...I wish I could help 😔 still I'm around if you want someone to chat to!

Heya i get anxiety too. If you ever need  a sympathetic ear just message me. You can also read my blog called The Black Dog and me. I hope you feel better!

I have seen more than one member here say that the support they receive from other members has really helped with their social anxiety or esteem issues. Give it some time and once you have more followers the love will come. I have no doubt that your set will  be accepted for review as the previews look amazing. 

If you are looking for more followers you could try posting in some of the groups that appeal to you, including the hopefuls group. If you can do video you could also do a short video and introduce yourself to the site. Posting more pics like your topless tuesday one will certainly get you more followers, and try posting in the big boob appreciation group.

Hell yes! I feel better 😃

well, Helloooooooooooooooooooooo!!!

Wishing you a quick recovery! 😊

Hope you have a nice stay here. Good luck for your set.

Welcome! Looking forward to seeing more of your pics and posts. 😊