What do I do now?
My girlfriend has had problems in the past with abdominal pain. We were doing well. She was excited by my advances and I was excited by her advances. Now, her pain has come back with a vengance and she is no longer interested in sex. Not only is she not interested in sex, but when she's having pain, she shuts me and the world out.
She doesn't want me to make physical advances while she is hurting and I don't want to hurt her when she's already in pain. I want to help her, but I don't know what I can do at this point. In the past she has told me to take things into my own hands and I don't have a problem with that, but I want her to be included. Should I take things into my own hands while she watches? Should I try and get her so aroused that she wants to have sex beyond the pain?
What is my next step?
My girlfriend has had problems in the past with abdominal pain. We were doing well. She was excited by my advances and I was excited by her advances. Now, her pain has come back with a vengance and she is no longer interested in sex. Not only is she not interested in sex, but when she's having pain, she shuts me and the world out.
She doesn't want me to make physical advances while she is hurting and I don't want to hurt her when she's already in pain. I want to help her, but I don't know what I can do at this point. In the past she has told me to take things into my own hands and I don't have a problem with that, but I want her to be included. Should I take things into my own hands while she watches? Should I try and get her so aroused that she wants to have sex beyond the pain?
What is my next step?