marauder

drinking....lots of booze...generally makes life better....ok...most of the time....but at least you'll sleep...

Dear,

I dont know everything but..I am older than you. So Im going to ramble on a bit like those old geezers do.

I once heard that there are three kinds of love, three stages if you will. I saw this on PBS, so it must be true.

There is the first stage; early infatuation / walking on air / geez your ass looks great kind of love. This is the love / lust at first sight kind of thing.

Then there is a middle stage; which I forget anything about. (Hey, give me a break, Im older than you and sometimes when you get older, your memory starts to go!)

Then there is the last stage of love. This stage, as it is the last one, can run the gambit. Its everything from crying at your wedding, to lets make a baby, to the feelings your grandparents had when they looked at each other in the eyes.

With this last stage of love, you have to make an important realization. You can still find each other attractive and have wild monkey sex. One would figure that this holds true more for the newly married couple than the grandparents. But you arent going to have that kind of sexy awkward tension, not like when you were still in that first stage of love.

Basically, you have to make a trade-off. The animal attraction fades but you get something better in return. But they said that you have more than one stage at a time. If your relationship survives long enough, it moves towards the last stage eventually. I guess you cant get sick around each other or share a bathroom with someone and stay at that first stage of love. You can have fun but its a different kind of fun.

So to cut it short or shorter anyway. Yes it is normal, what is happening to you. But if you really love your man, you got to nip this shit in the bud. (Borrowing a phrase from my man there. And by the way, he was 20 when we first met. He was 20 and I was 7 years older!) You know that you are a very, very pretty lady and that you are going to have men falling all over for you for decades to come. (Hell, you might have some girls falling over you too.) There is probably nothing at all special about this new guy, hes just new. There will always be a new guy. Each new guy means asking if your man that you have now is still worth being with.

Its your decision and only yours alone. But I think that its a decision worth making, you owe your current guy that at least. One guy at a time, you know? Its the only decent thing to do.

Oh and have a very Happy New Year!!

Wow, what an expensive way to kick off the holiday season. I hope that all of the critters are doing better by now and everyone is keeping their intestines lined up properly. I've never heard of that one before!

I just wanted to say here as well, that I thought your set was great.


And I love that you are pagan too.

Samhain...Yule. I see you follow the old ways.

As to your set, I liked it. The photo order was a bit jumbled, but that can be fixed. As a debut set, it was excellent. You are gorgeous!

I have my celebration that I am gonna end up doing all by myself cause no one in my house celebrates the year (I guess like WE?) do.

But it's all cool!

Hope you have a great time this Saturday.

Thanks for the add!

Good luck