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Patchwork.

Mar 7, 2023
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We’re all just bits and pieces of other people.

My father gave me his cheekbones.

My mother gave me her trauma and her paper doll genetics. My maternal family is beautiful and fragile, with rips and crinkles and torn bits of ability. I am structurally unstable art like them.

My grandma gave me a love of crafting and taught me to bake bread when I’m heartbroken.

I’m like my stepfather when people need something, or when I feel like being irresponsible.

My first best friend instilled a love of horror. A boy I talked to for months in 1998 online but never met introduced me to Midwest emo.

My uncle taught me to hate cops.
(He was a cop.)


My first boyfriend made me realize my worth when he dumped me after first period only to ask me back later on in the day. I looked him in the eyes, which looked colder and more rat-like than before lunch, and I said no.

(Then I went home and made bread.)

My ex fiancée made me question my own relationship with my gender when she came out as a trans woman.

My ex husband taught me how to be really good at skee-ball. He also taught me not to invest in relationships that flow like flash floods instead of rivers.

A woman I don’t talk to anymore taught me to be careful who you trust and to be even more careful who you let into your home.

My sense of humour was probably developed by my friendship with @martini.

So much of me is other people that the things I came to on my own terms feel most dear to me - my wild imzginztion, my love of Buffy The Vampire Slayer, my love of books, the feral soul who’s never been tamed.

(My love of writing trite, overly wordy 1 am essays exposing myself on sites where I post boobs, because it’s only soft core unless you bare your soul with your ass.)

What is uniquely you about you? What part of you did you come to on your own terms?


(photos by @matsunny )
VIEW 8 of 8 COMMENTS
sorcerer333:
I’m friggin’ glad I came about this post. I’m reading this just after reading your blurb about how disappointed you are in your progress in 2024 so far. I’m reminded of all the cosmic stuff that came together to form us and the environment in which we can live. We’re made up of sooooo much. What would I say is uniquely ‘me’ about me? The symptoms of my disorder forced me to become something of an outsider looking in, for the most part, and I never really connected with those that share my opinion of the world at large. I’d say the bulk of me lies in there, somewhere.
Jan 7, 2024
skisby:
Great blog!  There’s a quote I read a while back from someone called B.J. Neblett.  "We are the sum total of our experiences. Those experiences, be they positive or negative, make us the person we are, at any given point in our lives. And, like a flowing river, those same experiences, and those yet to come, continue to influence and reshape the person we are, and the person we become. None of us are the same as we were yesterday, nor will be tomorrow." I’m not sure what is uniquely “me” as my life took a number of sharp turns (both positive & negative) that changed everything…
Jan 7, 2024

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