I do not know the whole story about what happened and I understand you are no longer friends. But I will still friends to you both. I will be here for the both of you should you need someone to talk to.
I will still love you both while in this community.
gadget:
We never were friends. We were victimized by the same man. All of this came out only a week ago after she posted a blog about falling in love with someone here on the site. I reached out, being single, because I didn't want to get caught in the same heartbreak, only to learn that it was a web I was already ensnared in. We went back and forth talking for hours. She started to reach out to a woman that was a complete stranger to this man because he was unable to unfollow her profile here on the site. This 'no friend of mine' was dragging yet another person into this drama. I communicated that information to her, that it was a site glitch and nothing more so she'd stop harassing complete strangers. That is when she turned on me like a rabid animal. I was still in contact with our abuser, gaining closure and insuring that he was entering treatment. At one point she even celebrated that the 'sexual predator had disappeared. Thank the Universe!" via status update here on site... which, sexual predators never disappear. They just move to a new locale where no one knows them. I feel a responsibility to follow up, just as I felt a responsibility to this woman when she told me she had taken a bottle of sleeping pills. In her triggered mind she sees the fact that I wouldn't give her an email address she never asked for as defending him, when in fact I'm protecting them both. I've posted a blog about it. I'm willing to provide anyone who wants it with the full conversation to clear my name. Either in a word document for streamlined ease, or screen caps, which ever is preferred. What that boils down to is that not only you, but anyone can know the whole story and draw their own conclusions. Just DM me for a copy.
