How do you tell someone everything will be alright when you know they aren't ready to see it your way? You can't.
My sister, so much like me, so different from me. Excuses have taken over her life, and now she only lives by them. She wants the idea to live her life, but still refuses any responsibility. Sounds so familiar but familiar for the 13 year old me. Not the 19. Every choice is only a failure. She's such an angry person. She lies to blanket the other lies. When exposed, its only covered by more lies. I'd like to trust her, I'd like to know one day she'll be able to find herself and be able to take on life and all its values, but for now I must wonder if her own failure will lead her to anything promising. One day, she'll blame herself instead of my mom. One day she'll blame herself instead of some A.D.D. diagnoses. One day she wouldn't have to hide and be ashamed. One day she'll understand everything will be alright. Maybe then we'll be close.
Yeah, I've been there.
She'll be alright.
My sister, so much like me, so different from me. Excuses have taken over her life, and now she only lives by them. She wants the idea to live her life, but still refuses any responsibility. Sounds so familiar but familiar for the 13 year old me. Not the 19. Every choice is only a failure. She's such an angry person. She lies to blanket the other lies. When exposed, its only covered by more lies. I'd like to trust her, I'd like to know one day she'll be able to find herself and be able to take on life and all its values, but for now I must wonder if her own failure will lead her to anything promising. One day, she'll blame herself instead of my mom. One day she'll blame herself instead of some A.D.D. diagnoses. One day she wouldn't have to hide and be ashamed. One day she'll understand everything will be alright. Maybe then we'll be close.
Yeah, I've been there.
She'll be alright.
apexxx:
Im sure she will be alright eventually. people who cover lies with more lies are just confused. one day it will all make sense and she will greatly appreciate the patience you had with her