i seem stuck between a rock and another damn rock. i have 2 girls, one in alabama one in michigan alabama girl is someone i knew in high school and always had a huge crush on fast forward 13 years and now I seem to have a chance. Michigan girl Is someone I met a few years ago like 7ish she's about 7 years my senior. now the Michigan one has her life together for the most part married (going through the divorce process) has 4(I think) kids and is a super good person I do like her a lot, but for a few reasons is otherwise unobtainable. Alabama girl has 3 kids is divorced but lives there (with her ex and ex father-in law) I might add. now both seem to like me however both I cant have (I live in Pittsburgh I might add) so I don't really know what to do, besides maybe cut both loose and keep fishing.