an update to the crap of my family.
what is my younger sister's reason for not wanting anyone there?
"The two families won't get along, so why bother? We can't have the wedding the way we want it if we have people there, so we need to have the wedding this way." the two families barely talk, they want it that way. we think its so we can't see the lies they are feeding both of us. too bad we talk anyways, huh?
then again, she also is planning on marrying someone who has others do things for him....or is so mature as to tell his parents (mind you, his step-mother raised him, since his mother, at age 5 or so, left and wanted nothing to do with him or his sister. part of the settlement was his biological mother not having contact with him until age 18. but his dad did allow her family to visit and have contact with his kids, despite what thier biological mother did) while leaving. even though his father has stage 3 cancer (and he keeps going "My dad is okay." yeah, umm, news for him, his dad might not make it to Christmas).
the only thing we can think of that my younger sister is seeing (mind you, he has made such things as Junior Prom and Senior Ball miserable for her by throwing temper tantrums....if he does that by me, well, what KreatinKaos could think of won't even scratch the surface for what I'll do to him) is that he stands to inherit lots of money from his grandmother (she makes 6 digits). the grandmother that is his biological mother's mom.
so they cut off their families that raised and supported them for money.
screw car jacking. I'm thinking beat down for him. and let my older sister and cousin's wife (2 very hurt females who don't pull their punches) have their say with her.
what does everyone else think here?
what is my younger sister's reason for not wanting anyone there?
"The two families won't get along, so why bother? We can't have the wedding the way we want it if we have people there, so we need to have the wedding this way." the two families barely talk, they want it that way. we think its so we can't see the lies they are feeding both of us. too bad we talk anyways, huh?
then again, she also is planning on marrying someone who has others do things for him....or is so mature as to tell his parents (mind you, his step-mother raised him, since his mother, at age 5 or so, left and wanted nothing to do with him or his sister. part of the settlement was his biological mother not having contact with him until age 18. but his dad did allow her family to visit and have contact with his kids, despite what thier biological mother did) while leaving. even though his father has stage 3 cancer (and he keeps going "My dad is okay." yeah, umm, news for him, his dad might not make it to Christmas).
the only thing we can think of that my younger sister is seeing (mind you, he has made such things as Junior Prom and Senior Ball miserable for her by throwing temper tantrums....if he does that by me, well, what KreatinKaos could think of won't even scratch the surface for what I'll do to him) is that he stands to inherit lots of money from his grandmother (she makes 6 digits). the grandmother that is his biological mother's mom.
so they cut off their families that raised and supported them for money.
screw car jacking. I'm thinking beat down for him. and let my older sister and cousin's wife (2 very hurt females who don't pull their punches) have their say with her.
what does everyone else think here?
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as for the families "not getting along", well, since my mom and his step-mom talk on the phone, and I'm thinking of doing some gardening for the father (I used to do landscaping), I laugh at that.
more thinking they don't want the families together to find all their lies!