so been trying the OKCupid thing....saw one girl where we "matched" in the mid 90's. and another girl who mentioned comic books.

but have heard nothing back...

kind of disappointing. what's a single guy in his 40's to do? hate the bar scene and all the people I know seem to think I make a really good friend but not worth...
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OK Cupid...should I bother paying the $10 or so a month to see who is "interested" in me? what do you think?

birdi:
It's a scam... Plus barely anyone is on OKC anymore.mostly just bots
chef:
I think you have a better chance of meeting someone here.

vacation has started...actually started last Friday. so far, I've installed some blinds at my Mom and step-dad's house and met a friend for dinner. the part that bites is this friend is someone I would love to date. except she said how she started seeing someone. someone she was friends with, so she decided why not.

yet not really surprised by this...
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days like today makes me really miss chat here....

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hellstorm:
yesterday was the wake for my cousin who died in a car accident.  think she had a heart attack.  today is the funeral.  those kind of things suck!
mydogfarted:
I miss chat a lot.

sister called me today. my cousin (technically my Mom's cousin, so I guess 1st or 2nd cousin) was in a car accident today. she hit a pole. they believe she had a heart attack or something before she hit the pole. she did not survive.

so another funeral in about 2 or 3 months. have I mentioned I hate funerals?

also will only go...
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dariianity:
Stay strong

yesterday was Father's Day...and something I realized.

there are no pictures I know of where I'm young and with my bio-dad. guess that happens when you leave your child at 9 1/2 months old and don't return to his life until he's in 3rd grade.

oh well, such is life. it helped shape who I am. I won't...
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about a month ago, my aunt died. she was 62 with Cerebral Palsy and medical issues. as my sister and I agreed upon...it was a "natural" death. it made sense.

What we (mom and my sister) did not realize is she started a Genealogy of our family.

and now I have a PDF scan of what she has. so at least I can find...
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dariianity:
Very important that you found out

aunt's funeral today. she died either Monday night or Tuesday morning (she died in her sleep).

age 62 and had Cerebral Palsy (both mental and physical disabilities).

have I mentioned that funerals suck, by the way? just saying.

mydogfarted:
:(
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so my sister had her surgery. things went good. now its the waiting game to see what the biopsies say. she had a lymph node and a tumor removed. thankfully both were less than 1 CM.

waiting games do suck, though.

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well, its been a while and things have definitely been interesting the past few weeks....

about 2 weeks ago my mom texts me to tell me my sister (age 45) has breast cancer. 2 lumps, same side, less than 1 cm, and nothing in the lymph nodes. also the first person in our family to have breast cancer....in fact, the only other person in...
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tali79:
Sorry to hear about your sister. Hope she will be ok
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on vacation. so my plans so far?

a family birthday party tomorrow.

get my car checked over on Tuesday. prep and get ready.

Wednesday I drive. check out New Paltz. or Schenectady. or whatever catches my eye. and then get a hotel room.

drive home Thursday.

Friday maybe some cleaning or relaxing or doing nothing.

and then get ready for work.

so anyone have suggestions...
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doing laundry at the laundromat and watching people leave the carts everywhere after using them (and 1 lady using 3 of the 6 carts for herself) really irritates me.....

then shopping and seeing how people leave their carts everywhere just reinforces my dislike of the general population.

just saying.