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Dec 21, 2018
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when you're my age and not one for the bars....finding a date really sucks.

so far, I've had about 1 month (out of 3) of a paid membership to OKCupid. One girl said she likes comic books (I read comic books) and we had a match of 90% or higher. sent her a message, asking her what she likes. nothing.

another girl talked about being an introvert (I'm a strong introvert), same thing, match of 90% or higher. sent her a message. nothing.

1 girl did message me about where I've gone off-roading. I replied. and nothing.

so after 3 months, should I renew? cancel? try another dating site (like match.com)? try Tinder? or just give up and acknowledge that I've been single for almost 15 years now, so as far as anyone is concerned, I have issues and I should be avoided at all costs?

what do you think?

gadget:
I think okc sucks for getting messages to people. I would often get messages saying someone was interested, meaning they had liked my profile and sent a message - but so often when I'd go to 'double take' to try to find this person - and oftentimes I can't. No matter how many people I swipe through. I don't think you should be discouraged, but I don't think you really need to pay either. You might reach a point where you want to pay because you finally find a profile that really sets your heart on fire... The simple answer is, I wouldn't pay for it, but I'd keep at it. You're certainly not the only one who can't get a date.
Dec 21, 2018
hellstorm:
Gadget, going point.  for me, it just gets discouraging sometimes.  then again, I seem to hear a lot of "You're such a great guy....I'm glad we're friends" but that's about it....yes, I live in the perpetual friendzone (that and my last relationship ended with a "You taught me I'm worthy of respect and relationships can be a good thing...now I want to see what else is out there."
Dec 21, 2018

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