so a girl i work with was talking to me last night about how she hooked up with a guy she met on Facebook, went on a few dates (aka, had sex with him a few times) and such. he goes to Florida, comes back and won't talk to her.
she tells me more and more....I'm starting to get that feeling. I tell her I think he might be a player and she got played. she's saying no no no, the one night they hit the bar people where there and something would have slipped. so forth and so on.
today, I get a text.....I was right, she was played.
told her last night, and told her again tonight....she has to figure things out for herself first. she's sleeping around while still married (not sure if she wants a divorce or not). definitely has to work on herself first. and it took a while (and some explaining) for her to understand what I meant when I told her that, to her, "You connect sex with love."
and in other news, got to chat with "the customer" again. last year, she would come in during my overnight shift, and we could spend at least 1/2 hour chatting about whatever. got along great with her. then she drops the bombshell....boyfriend for 4 years that she lives with. DOH! saw her in September, he called her from Chicago to dump her. dipshit. now she's single....and I have that inkling not at all interested. sigh, such is my life, singledom is looking more and more like a permanent state for me now....
well, time to finish my cider glazed carrots and go to bed.....wish me luck not dying while changing 2 ceiling fans on Saturday. one is at least 12 feet up, the other one has to switch assigned to it. so have to find the circuit breakers for both....and pray I don't fall off the ladder and bounce down the steps where the one is located!
she tells me more and more....I'm starting to get that feeling. I tell her I think he might be a player and she got played. she's saying no no no, the one night they hit the bar people where there and something would have slipped. so forth and so on.
today, I get a text.....I was right, she was played.
told her last night, and told her again tonight....she has to figure things out for herself first. she's sleeping around while still married (not sure if she wants a divorce or not). definitely has to work on herself first. and it took a while (and some explaining) for her to understand what I meant when I told her that, to her, "You connect sex with love."
and in other news, got to chat with "the customer" again. last year, she would come in during my overnight shift, and we could spend at least 1/2 hour chatting about whatever. got along great with her. then she drops the bombshell....boyfriend for 4 years that she lives with. DOH! saw her in September, he called her from Chicago to dump her. dipshit. now she's single....and I have that inkling not at all interested. sigh, such is my life, singledom is looking more and more like a permanent state for me now....
well, time to finish my cider glazed carrots and go to bed.....wish me luck not dying while changing 2 ceiling fans on Saturday. one is at least 12 feet up, the other one has to switch assigned to it. so have to find the circuit breakers for both....and pray I don't fall off the ladder and bounce down the steps where the one is located!
psycho_magnet:
Sounds like you are a wise friend to have. As for your customer, if she drops the info that she had a BF and now she's single, she's interested. Don't expect anything serious, but she definitely wants attention.
psycho_magnet:
Meh, I still think you have a shot. Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, and a healthy respect for others, so I still think you can impress her if you put your mind to it.