So last night was a crazy night. I met this girl at my friend's house (i have talked to her in passing a few times and stuff like that), we hit it off and have some good conversations, when she tells me that her boyfriend scares her, which sucks but at this point my hands were tied. Anyways, the night goes on, we really hit it off and get flirty and come to find out from my friend that she is interested in me as in more than friends, except that she has a boyfriend. I can totally respect having a boyfriend, im not the kind of guy that goes and sleeps around, let alone with someone else's girlfriend, its just not on my list of moral behavior.
Eventually he comes over and she is still flirty with me, since the boyfriend has some possesion issues, i didnt flirt back as much as i normally did and certianly did nothing that would have stepped over the bonds of acceptable behavior for normal people. I was showing her some pics on my camera, which she asked me to do so i take the camera stand behind her and hold the screen in front of us so that we can both see since she is a retard when it comes to technology. At this point he grabs her wrist and squeezes, hard, then does the same thing to her forarm. He gets all pissy and they go outside to talk, my friend and i make up excuses to go outside and check up on them since i got a real bad vibe from him and so did my friend.
After a while, he leaves and she comes in and starts crying telling us how scared she was and we take about an hour and a half to comfort her. Once we finally got her in a good mood the asshole calls again and threatens to kill us all for trying to fuck his girlfriend. She hangs up on him eventually and there are some more waterworks.
We finally get her calmed down again and he calls again and wants to talk to me, so i did. He threatened to 'bash my fucking skull open' which, im not afraid of this idiot, im at least 50 pounds over on him and have my own anger issues which i have learned to control to my advantage, i would have ended up killing him since i cannot stand to see any girl get beat on, ever, for any reason. Eventually i tell him that a man that preys on helpless women is no man at all and he starts talking about his penis, completely missing the point of what i was saying. He then said that he was coming over to kick my ass, at this point my friend came in told him to get fucked and then called the cops.
Cops came and she was in tears, we thought, finally, she is going to get out of this mess since she had told us that she was breaking up with him and that we were all going to move her shit out today. To our amazment she told the cops the exact opposite of what she told us, that she was not afraid and that it did not hurt and begged me not to press charges for threats. Of course i ignored her as my natural inclination would have just been for me to prey on him like he preys on her, but at least this way it is in the books and i can get a restraining order on him so that i can be a safe place for both her and my friend, and my friend's 3 kids. Long story short, she ended up forcing her parents to take her back over there and the whole night just made her life worse since she has not the balls to stand up for herself.
No good deed goes unpunished, but at least this wayhe is still going to get some criminal charges filed against him
ANd of course, if i ever see him again, i know that he will attack me since he seemed to think that i was going to try and fuck the girl he cannot seem to take care of. If that happens then playground rules are in full affect and i will just claim self defence and have that accepted as he already has charges filed against him.
For my efforts i got about 2 hours of sleep last night and almost had to cancel a very important date with a very important girl. I just hope that she is not dead. At least i got to finally feel good about myself for sticking up for someone without the strength to do it themselves and maybe, just maybe, let her know that there are good guys out there that would be interested in her and treat her right and that she does have friends that she can rely on.
Eventually he comes over and she is still flirty with me, since the boyfriend has some possesion issues, i didnt flirt back as much as i normally did and certianly did nothing that would have stepped over the bonds of acceptable behavior for normal people. I was showing her some pics on my camera, which she asked me to do so i take the camera stand behind her and hold the screen in front of us so that we can both see since she is a retard when it comes to technology. At this point he grabs her wrist and squeezes, hard, then does the same thing to her forarm. He gets all pissy and they go outside to talk, my friend and i make up excuses to go outside and check up on them since i got a real bad vibe from him and so did my friend.
After a while, he leaves and she comes in and starts crying telling us how scared she was and we take about an hour and a half to comfort her. Once we finally got her in a good mood the asshole calls again and threatens to kill us all for trying to fuck his girlfriend. She hangs up on him eventually and there are some more waterworks.
We finally get her calmed down again and he calls again and wants to talk to me, so i did. He threatened to 'bash my fucking skull open' which, im not afraid of this idiot, im at least 50 pounds over on him and have my own anger issues which i have learned to control to my advantage, i would have ended up killing him since i cannot stand to see any girl get beat on, ever, for any reason. Eventually i tell him that a man that preys on helpless women is no man at all and he starts talking about his penis, completely missing the point of what i was saying. He then said that he was coming over to kick my ass, at this point my friend came in told him to get fucked and then called the cops.
Cops came and she was in tears, we thought, finally, she is going to get out of this mess since she had told us that she was breaking up with him and that we were all going to move her shit out today. To our amazment she told the cops the exact opposite of what she told us, that she was not afraid and that it did not hurt and begged me not to press charges for threats. Of course i ignored her as my natural inclination would have just been for me to prey on him like he preys on her, but at least this way it is in the books and i can get a restraining order on him so that i can be a safe place for both her and my friend, and my friend's 3 kids. Long story short, she ended up forcing her parents to take her back over there and the whole night just made her life worse since she has not the balls to stand up for herself.
No good deed goes unpunished, but at least this wayhe is still going to get some criminal charges filed against him
ANd of course, if i ever see him again, i know that he will attack me since he seemed to think that i was going to try and fuck the girl he cannot seem to take care of. If that happens then playground rules are in full affect and i will just claim self defence and have that accepted as he already has charges filed against him.
For my efforts i got about 2 hours of sleep last night and almost had to cancel a very important date with a very important girl. I just hope that she is not dead. At least i got to finally feel good about myself for sticking up for someone without the strength to do it themselves and maybe, just maybe, let her know that there are good guys out there that would be interested in her and treat her right and that she does have friends that she can rely on.