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We put Lucers down on Saturday. Dickie (her littermate) is adjusting a lot better than we thought. Probably cause we are spoiling him rotten. He still leaves food in his dish for her, but she never comes so he will eventually eat it.
I have a day off today, which is insane. I don't work at the 'Bou and I don't nanny. I feel so...
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1. Piece on how I feel about such terms as "cracker," "spick," etc.
Growing up in a mostly white community, when you hang with the white kids and they think you're cool I notice they start to feel comfortable calling you "spick" (in my case). As a middle schooler, I was just so happy to be accepted and allowed it, even calling myself that to...
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Luke and I have to put our kitties down this coming Saturday. It's awful. Anyone who is a cat person knows that cats are more than just furry little stinkers. They are my babies and we've had them pretty much since we started dating. But Lucy is sick and I don't have the money to keep bringing her in for fix after fix when 'fixing'...
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shiggity shwag

i love nail polish.
i am completely addicted to spending my money on it, and changing it up.
i typically have at least two different colors going on.
i buy polishes for both color and the silly names they're given.
i really like essie, china glaze, opi, and sally hansen salon bottles.
i try and allow myself to buy one bottle a paycheck.
i can...
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I just booked the hotel room for Luke and my annual Duluth visit. (!!!) We go every year my birthday weekend, stay at the same hotel, and then bar hop until I'm drunk (so about...5 drinks). We also go to the strip club. We like Club Saratoga cause it has more of a bar feel, but we've only been able to go to the strip...
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Damn, people move so fast in life. Where are they fitting in time to enjoy the simple things? I was poking around the FB and saw how many of the kids I grew up with (at one point or another) had kids, were married, etc. And I'm thinking to myself, 'damn, I've been with the same person for over 7.5 years and you don't see...
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Alternative adj.
Of or relating to behavior that is considered unconventional and often seen as a challenge to traditional norms.

Does alternative mean ugly? Because it seems that many people believe that you can't be both pretty and have tattoos and be 'alternative'. Are the people attracted to SG, and who join SG, becoming less 'alternative' and loving sets that feature non-alternative girls and consequently...
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