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well, my babies dad got arrested for speeding tonight...and now is going to be in jail for a while for an open warrant. we're in the same boat. Just now I'm alone with the baby and we dont have his dad

i feel your pain.
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mmmmmm enchiladas! My husband loves them but ONLY his moms. She gave me the recipe but I'm worried that if I make it, he either will hate them or he'll like them enough to want me to make them all the time lol.
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You're about 490 steps ahead of your mom on this one. You know to keep your daughter away from it and that she'll be better off without this poison. Just tell them all now, "this shit ain't gonna happen when my daughter gets here. If you want to be part of our lives, then get your shit together now and learn to be better people." or, you know, something like that. lol
Good luck hon!
xoxo

I would LOVE a new digital camera!

I'm glad you're doing better now. It sounds like kidney reflux to me. My younger daughter had that when she was a baby. It's not terrible and it's something that you can easily fix but it does cause some pain. My baby had it when she was 8 months old. Generally it's not something that bothers a person but, if it gets to the point where the reflux gets back into the kidneys it can cause a ton of pain.
I hope you're feeling better soon.
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haha I had to pee in a bed pan after i had max, because my left leg was still asleep from the epidural and i couldnt move it. it sucked because I was bleeding buckets and i could feel it in my butt crack and all that fun stuff. Haha gross, but whatever. The tylenol 3's SHOULD be okay, you think they wouldnt have given them to you if they werent, right? (but i'm no doc.) I'msaying that too because they were giving me percocets after i had max and i was breastfeeding. so who knows.

He has to go to ISF which is like a treatment center. is PO recommended that cuz she knows i'm gonna have a baby in march. As a matter of fact she's on maternity leave (the irony in that huh). He's pretty much just waiting for them to transfer him from jail to the center. once he's at the center it's a 45 day substance abuse program. After that he has to wear a monitor. lol sucks 4 him!! But it's WAY better then him going back to prison..

awww man. I started crying reading this. I know what its like to have the baby daddy be in jail. I got lucky and he hasnt had to do any time for the past year....I get so upset thinking of what it would be like without him. I feel the substance abuse thing too. Ryan and I are both recovering heroin addicts and both have done our fair share of time in treatment centers and halfway houses. I totally feel for you, if you ever need someone to talk to, I am here.

You have a UTI. I will bet money on it. If your back hurts, you've got a mild fever and now your kidneys hurt? You have a UTI or kidney or bladder infection. They're totally common during pregnancy but you really do have to get it taken care of. If you can't get in til Monday, go buy cranberry juice. NOT CranApple. Drink tons of water and cranberry juice and it'll help relieve some of the pain until you can get to the Dr.

I figured as much. Don't really think that's reason enough to go to the ER. Unless I'm dyin right? Ahhh, the pain!!!

I got my morning sickness back, but only when it's all cloudy and rainy (which is all the time in NC) do I feel like shit.

i posted in that thread-go check it out.

Sorry to hear things are really shitty right now. Are you in any sirt of program like NA? I know people in AA and I'm in CoDA and the people you meet there are pretty damned cool. Always ready to accept a phone call when you're feeling like shit and usually open to hanging out just to help you sooth your mind.

Regardless of what you choose to do, I hope things look up for you, your soon to be child and your boyfriend.