Blech. 
That NewBoy has turned out not to be as sensitive with others' feelings as I'd hoped. He basically has been accusing me of wanting "more", which confused me (we've been doing the "light and fun" thing, as I don't get serious easily, and that's what he said he wanted, too), and it turns out that he is unable to do the friends-with-benefits thing like...
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That NewBoy has turned out not to be as sensitive with others' feelings as I'd hoped. He basically has been accusing me of wanting "more", which confused me (we've been doing the "light and fun" thing, as I don't get serious easily, and that's what he said he wanted, too), and it turns out that he is unable to do the friends-with-benefits thing like... Read More
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Instead of buying a bunch of stuff this year for Black Friday, why not visit the Festival of Lights in Yountville? There will be a horse- drawn carriage available to take you from downtown up to the Grille, where we'll be having all sorts of activities. Our pet-friendly patio will be open, and on it will be PetsLifeline volunteers with kittens and puppies available...
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Yesterday, I had a total nutty. I started crying on my way to work, and couldn't stop. I'm not a pretty crier, so I arrived blotchy, red, and disgusting. The NewBoy asked if I was okay, and I promised to explain at the end of the shift, but when I eventually did try to tell him why I was upset, it sounded dumb out loud....
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fragilesong_:
A good cry can be relieving. How are you doing?
gnarl:
I think sometimes it's okay to lean back when you have to.
Bottomless mimosas + datsun + cufflinks = fun day in SF. 
I've been celebrating my birthday since midnight Thursday, and I'm a little worried that my liver might go on strike if I keep partying.
It's been my best birthday in years, though!
Good things this weekend:
New James Bond flick was good. I liked the last one, but this one was even better.
There's...
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I've been celebrating my birthday since midnight Thursday, and I'm a little worried that my liver might go on strike if I keep partying.
It's been my best birthday in years, though!Good things this weekend:
New James Bond flick was good. I liked the last one, but this one was even better. There's... Read More
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n8tvegrl:
Oh wow... another familiar face. I just got back to SG and it's nice to see some of the "older" folks.
Happy (belated) Birthday!
S
Happy (belated) Birthday!
S
sita:
Happy Belated!
Wow! I'm back! But only sorta 'cause my work now monitors internet usage, so I can't even log on from my laptop on our wireless network. Boo. 
Bu at least I'm trying to get involved again. Feels like I'm dusting the cobwebs off my brain.
I'm not engaged anymore. the_cowboy is on the other side of the country, and we had some trust issues, so...
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Bu at least I'm trying to get involved again. Feels like I'm dusting the cobwebs off my brain.I'm not engaged anymore. the_cowboy is on the other side of the country, and we had some trust issues, so...
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fragilesong_:
I'm glad things are going well for you!
I replied back to your message, by the way... I think... the new layout is weird.
-L.
I replied back to your message, by the way... I think... the new layout is weird.
-L.
tigerangel:
I am so damn glad you are back on here.
I've been transfered to a new restaurant, and we're doing tons of work. the_cowboy is in Georgia taking car of his mom, and I'm waiting for him to return before moving again. Total craziness. Miss you all bunches. I've recently been nostalgic for the SG gettogethers of 3 years ago (or so). Lightning in a bottle- it'll never be back the way it was, but...
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fragilesong_:
how are things going for you?
boxofficepoison:
Yeah. I kind of miss the community from 3 years ago a lot myself.
CRAZY past couple of weeks.
Bad news: My health has been really back-and-forth, and I think I might need to leave my job because it's too hard on my body. I hate to do so, though, as my GM seems to be trying to drive me out and I'm damned if somebody else is going to dictate my life...
Good news: My birthday was really...
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Bad news: My health has been really back-and-forth, and I think I might need to leave my job because it's too hard on my body. I hate to do so, though, as my GM seems to be trying to drive me out and I'm damned if somebody else is going to dictate my life...
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jora:
I haven't touched base with you in a million years.
I am sorry to hear about your health stuff. I will send you all my positive healing energy. I hope you feel better and stay strong.
And poop on your DM! I hate work related crap. (Probably why I am unemployed right now.) I hope you find something that pays well and doesn't drive you too crazy. I didn't know you graduated from a culinary dealio. How cool. I love to cook and have always dreamed of becoming a chef. I am content with creating and cooking for my guy though.
I recently got engaged too!!! We have no set date yet, and I want to talk him into doing a courthouse ceremony. Yay for you two!!
Well, I just wanted to let you know that I still think about you all the time, even though I am crappy about staying in touch. Sorry! Big hugs!!
I am sorry to hear about your health stuff. I will send you all my positive healing energy. I hope you feel better and stay strong.
And poop on your DM! I hate work related crap. (Probably why I am unemployed right now.) I hope you find something that pays well and doesn't drive you too crazy. I didn't know you graduated from a culinary dealio. How cool. I love to cook and have always dreamed of becoming a chef. I am content with creating and cooking for my guy though.
I recently got engaged too!!! We have no set date yet, and I want to talk him into doing a courthouse ceremony. Yay for you two!!
Well, I just wanted to let you know that I still think about you all the time, even though I am crappy about staying in touch. Sorry! Big hugs!!
neuroticanne:
I am back!! If you remember me....You are the greatest! If you don't, fuck it....say hi anyways....I need love.
Had another surgery. Stupid vagina. 
I am waiting for biopsy results, and really appreciate all the voicemails of encouragement yesterday. Love you all.
WIne stuff has been good. Work is exhausting. the_cowboy's mom & dad are moving to Atlanta. His mom wants us to join her and open a wine & cheese shop, but I am really reluctant because I still don't feel super...
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I am waiting for biopsy results, and really appreciate all the voicemails of encouragement yesterday. Love you all.
WIne stuff has been good. Work is exhausting. the_cowboy's mom & dad are moving to Atlanta. His mom wants us to join her and open a wine & cheese shop, but I am really reluctant because I still don't feel super...
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volkov:
Happy Birthday, beautiful! I hope it's a good 'un!
_pie_:
happy birthday!
Wow. Got another promotion. Unfortunately, this just means more work and not more money. But don't worry, I'll be asking for some cash soon.
I'll be in Sac next week. Check SGSac or PM me to meet up with us.
Love you bunches.
I'll be in Sac next week. Check SGSac or PM me to meet up with us.
Love you bunches.
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morgan:
Ugh, I hate that shit. Usually people will excuse themselves by saying "but I is just being honest! lol!", which is bull.
rawr_ima_monster:
Wait, fortunately for who?
-for me? rawr!
Dave
-for me? rawr!
Dave
Wow. It feels like I've been gone a million years.
I wound up being sick because this spring was really hard on my allergies. I was sick for over a month before my doctor figured it out. Boo. But I'm better now- only tired due to the crazy schedule. It's a good kind of tired.
I got a major promotion, and now I am one...
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I wound up being sick because this spring was really hard on my allergies. I was sick for over a month before my doctor figured it out. Boo.
But I'm better now- only tired due to the crazy schedule. It's a good kind of tired.I got a major promotion, and now I am one...
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munch:
hey Datz, great to hear from you!
message me across your number/email or whatever...i doubt i'm gonna be doing much organising through SGSF this time, but we'll be out drinking every night (what would you expect, right?), and it'd be great to catch up with some of you kids while were out there.
hope thats cool. xx
message me across your number/email or whatever...i doubt i'm gonna be doing much organising through SGSF this time, but we'll be out drinking every night (what would you expect, right?), and it'd be great to catch up with some of you kids while were out there.
hope thats cool. xx
jfenix:
you need more photos of the z. make it another album.
Being sick blows. I thought I had strep, but now we think it's viral. Boo.
Other than that, things are starting to smooth out in my life. the_cowboy and I are trying to figure out our future, and will hopefully be buying a house sometime in the next year (I use the term "house" loosely - "shack" is probably more accurate). We're talking weddings, and...
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I thought I had strep, but now we think it's viral. Boo.
Other than that, things are starting to smooth out in my life. the_cowboy and I are trying to figure out our future, and will hopefully be buying a house sometime in the next year (I use the term "house" loosely - "shack" is probably more accurate). We're talking weddings, and...
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hornjock:
Congrats on weddings and buying houses. I find both of those prospects to be mutually terrifying and intriguing as well.
A few years back, I was your friend on this site and I thought I'd just stop on by and see how you are doing.
A few years back, I was your friend on this site and I thought I'd just stop on by and see how you are doing.
glassheart:
hope all is well...still.
message me sometime with an update. I'm always wondering how you are doing.
message me sometime with an update. I'm always wondering how you are doing.
My thoughts and prayers are with the families, friends, and community of the Virginia Tech shooting victims. I hope we can all be supportive and sensitive during their time of grief, and allow them room to heal, but shoulders to lean on. Please remember that the people shot are not the only victims of this terrible tragedy, and we must all be sensitive to others'...
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tigerangel:
Hey baby girl!! How have you been doing? Miss ya lots!
smuffy:
I hear that.
I get to see my family for Xmas, finally, I haven't seen them in ages.