But if yourself is: a big-hearted, creative, funny, masculine man...most women want nothing to do with that. Nowadays I feel most of the women in SF see any sort of kindness in a man as weakness. They seem to be only into bad-boys and/or assholes. Sometimes I wish I could be a dick all the time so I could get a date, but...
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chef:
When I read this, my first thought? Maybe you should move.   They're still right, you should be yourself.  Being different will only connect you with someone who doesn't want the real you anyway.  Also, my hubs may look like a bad boy, but he's a tender heart. 
104am:
Well that's refreshing to read.  I totally agree, I can never be something I'm not and I've been thinking about moving ever since I finished my film.  After the rude woman I hooked with up last night, really made it clear, I need to move asap.  

Man this so frustrating I have all these pictures of my trip, & It can't upload a single 1mb pic...the progress bar freezes every time I connect to the hotel's wifi...Or any free wi-fi :|