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wolfamongravens

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Guys You're Doing It Wrong

Feb 21, 2019
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This has been on my mind a bit, and let me stress I'm no PC culture kid, or anything of that ilk, but I think somethings need to be addressed.

I think we confuse what these goddesses do and our access to them for them to not still need a form of privacy and respect. What I mean by that is, soliciting an SG or Hopeful for sex, or trying to find out where they live, or assuming they know who YOU are personally and that they want to hook up because they model nude is probably an incorrect course to take.

If an SG or a Hopeful is personally interested in you, allow them the opportunity to express that to you directly. I never assume on social media, or even in real life that someone is interested in me just because they liked a photo or followed me, or because we shared a beer once. I allow that person to come to me directly or even indirectly to let me know she is interested in that type of discourse.

Maybe I come at it from a different hue of paint because I come from the BDSM community? In that community discourse and trust, and communication is all very much important and negotiated through clear interactions and not based on assumption or presumption. As a Dom, I allow submissive types to approach me and we wing it from there until we discern limits and roles.

I just see so many lewd and unnecessary comments and I know as men we are better than this, we are better than our base limbic response. We are better than tired cat calling, and "slut" shaming just because models show their nude skin. This site is for alternative models to feel beautiful in their own skin and to tease of course, not for you to get all pissy eyed because she doesn't want to slide in your DM's. Anyway, This has been a long rambling rant I'm sure I'll get hate for...but fuck it.

Sincerely,

R

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