Vent Blog...you have been warned 
Here I am watching an anime drinking a few beers and researching my next costume endeavor when I get a call from my sister. A little precursor My sister has for young kids, my mom lives with her to help her out.
My sister met some guy who well may or may not be the best for her.
A long story short, I had to drive 20 minutes to calm my sister, her boyfriend and my mom down. Then precede to tell her kids it was okay and that once everyone was done being angry things will be okay. Brought my mom home with me so they could continue to cool down. All the while my mom complained about how she was mistreated. before that I had to listen to my sister complain about the same thing.
Well now I hope things are going okay for them, my mom seems to have calmed down, though she seems to have sparks of her anger flare up while she tries to sleep. Thank god for her medications.
I grew up with this chaos, I live to stave off the chaos and bring my family up knowing that life is better then that. But it seems that my side of my family strives to pull me back.
I am far from perfect, but I learned from my past and see the paths in which their anger is taking them and the cause. It is never as simple as he said she said. Trying to make them see it proves difficult. They are blinded by their anger... I encouraged them to not be hasty and to talk things over once they cooled down. Course it was met with yeah right there is now working things our now... We'll see...
Ok I am done.. I just feel like I am absorbing all their stress... argh
Here I am watching an anime drinking a few beers and researching my next costume endeavor when I get a call from my sister. A little precursor My sister has for young kids, my mom lives with her to help her out.
My sister met some guy who well may or may not be the best for her.
A long story short, I had to drive 20 minutes to calm my sister, her boyfriend and my mom down. Then precede to tell her kids it was okay and that once everyone was done being angry things will be okay. Brought my mom home with me so they could continue to cool down. All the while my mom complained about how she was mistreated. before that I had to listen to my sister complain about the same thing.
Well now I hope things are going okay for them, my mom seems to have calmed down, though she seems to have sparks of her anger flare up while she tries to sleep. Thank god for her medications.
I grew up with this chaos, I live to stave off the chaos and bring my family up knowing that life is better then that. But it seems that my side of my family strives to pull me back.
I am far from perfect, but I learned from my past and see the paths in which their anger is taking them and the cause. It is never as simple as he said she said. Trying to make them see it proves difficult. They are blinded by their anger... I encouraged them to not be hasty and to talk things over once they cooled down. Course it was met with yeah right there is now working things our now... We'll see...
Ok I am done.. I just feel like I am absorbing all their stress... argh