well, since i have nothing going on and nothing to say, this week will be "The Best Of" journal entries. 
WEDNESDAY MARCH 03 2004 9:11 PM Zen and the Art of Pussy Eating
( apologies to messers. Henkel and Pirsig)
the first thing i want to talk about are techniques. learning one or two is fine. not every technique work on every woman. relying solely on a lot of techniques is like using a playbook and lacks spontinaity and intuition.
the skill all men need to know is paying attention!
to me, foreplay is essential for the best experience. getting her to near full arousal before you go down will do wonders.
caress and stroke her inner thighs, breasts,neck or any other major " hot spot " depending on the particulars of the woman.
when she's ready she'll let you know. again, this falls back on paying attention.
once you get down to it experiment a bit.
nothing harsh or painful but gentle and soft unless you are told otherwise.
what is listed next is not a technique in the sense of do A B C... etc. but a guide of thing that have worked for me in the past
lightly brush your mouth over her outer lips, fluttering your tongue as you do so.
once her clit is fully aroused ( and really not before ) gently wrap your mouth around it and bathe it with your tongue.
use your fingers to massage her inner walls as you use your mouth in another fashion.
curl your index finger up behind her pelvic bone aprox. behind her clit there is a nerve bundle there. she'll love you for it when you combine that with the clit tongue bath.
gently tug on her outer lips with your mouth.
sigh and moan a bit. the vibrations will carry through.
and now the most important use of paying attention. everything listed above will not work as well if you fail to notice what she is responding to. again do not limit yourself by thinking any one "technique"
will please every woman! lister to her sighs, watch the movment of her body, and if she very comfortable with it , her verbal directions. set your ego aside! she knows what she likes and will tell you one way or another.
well that about sums it up.
WEDNESDAY MARCH 03 2004 9:11 PM Zen and the Art of Pussy Eating
( apologies to messers. Henkel and Pirsig)
the first thing i want to talk about are techniques. learning one or two is fine. not every technique work on every woman. relying solely on a lot of techniques is like using a playbook and lacks spontinaity and intuition.
the skill all men need to know is paying attention!
to me, foreplay is essential for the best experience. getting her to near full arousal before you go down will do wonders.
caress and stroke her inner thighs, breasts,neck or any other major " hot spot " depending on the particulars of the woman.
when she's ready she'll let you know. again, this falls back on paying attention.
once you get down to it experiment a bit.
nothing harsh or painful but gentle and soft unless you are told otherwise.
what is listed next is not a technique in the sense of do A B C... etc. but a guide of thing that have worked for me in the past
lightly brush your mouth over her outer lips, fluttering your tongue as you do so.
once her clit is fully aroused ( and really not before ) gently wrap your mouth around it and bathe it with your tongue.
use your fingers to massage her inner walls as you use your mouth in another fashion.
curl your index finger up behind her pelvic bone aprox. behind her clit there is a nerve bundle there. she'll love you for it when you combine that with the clit tongue bath.
gently tug on her outer lips with your mouth.
sigh and moan a bit. the vibrations will carry through.
and now the most important use of paying attention. everything listed above will not work as well if you fail to notice what she is responding to. again do not limit yourself by thinking any one "technique"
will please every woman! lister to her sighs, watch the movment of her body, and if she very comfortable with it , her verbal directions. set your ego aside! she knows what she likes and will tell you one way or another.
well that about sums it up.
metaleric:
Those are some damn good tips. I guess using a fork to eat pussy was all wrong.
evanx:
I love Madwill's greatest hits. 