vulvatron

Hi!
That story is way too bad. If I'd been there, I would have done something. Instead I'll give advice! Yaay! Which is odd, 'cause really I'm the most clueless person I know. Here's what you should have done.
Telling him off - like you and your cousin did - well, he won't even notice that. He knows he's not behaving correctly, so you're SUPPOSED to be mad. Telling him off is like saying "good dog!" when it does something right -- it just lets him know that he's having the desired effect.
You said your dad laughed and didn't think it was that big a deal. That sucks, sure...but at least that gives you liscense to take care if it yourself, right? Unless you really break a chair over the guy's head or something, your father also probably won't think it was a big deal, either....
Trip him! It doesn't take violence...he's drunk and not expecting it. Come up close like you're going to hug him, put one leg behind him, and PUSH! Then, when he's staring up at you -- that's when you tell him off. The guy isn't molesting women because he's a romantic...it's a power thing. He resents pretty girls for the power you have. So insulting him - when you and your cousing told him off - just tells him that he's made an enemy of you. That's really what he wanted, because he hates you for the beauty he's not allowed to touch. BUT! If you trip him, and stand over him when you say the same things -- that's terrible! You've shown your power, that he's weaker than you, etc. Even worse than cutting him or something, you've shown him how weak he is. He wouldn't be able to stand it...he'd remember you for months. And it probably wouldn't have ruined the party, whereas a chair over the head would have.

And -- you might object "Oh, I couldn't trip him! I'm just not a violent person!" But then you have to think....what about the next girl? The one tomorrow? Will she be more violent than me? What if she's not? Shouldn't I stick up for her here, today, before this guy has even met her? And that'll give you the excuse to take the guy down. Neat, huh?

There you go. Longest comment ever. Oh, and I'm not usually cool enough to use this kind of language, but I would like to give you "mad props" for owning a Nerf Bazooka. Yeah!

Aww Kels I'm sorry lady.

Tetas.

We should share our tetas. Boob love. ♥

I don't see shiet lady.

Sorry bout your back though. Pain killers are nice? lol..

HOPE YOUR MOVE IS GOIN GOOD! Or went well, whichever. I'll be in your shoes soon enough.

I love you, lady. Dude I miss playing with nerf guns. I remember when I was younger my 'brother' had that huge nerf bow and arrow. That thing was faaantastic. I want one of those huge super soakers though..with the backpack..I KNOW YOU KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT!

..new Apnea and Benni set. Pardon me while I touch myself at work.

[Edited on Aug 03, 2005 12:30PM]