i'm sad.
i really really really really can never have a fuck buddy again. I saw him tonight with another girl and it killed me. I mean he has no obligation to me blah blah blah.. but seeing him be cuddly with another girl, holding hands... I know it shouldn't hurt, but it just does.
And the worst part is, that a part of me wishes that I didn't stop having sex with him because I loved waking up in the morning to his kisses, and that thought makes me feel even more pathetic.
This situation basically proves to me that he never felt any connection to me at all. That i was just another notch on his bedpost.
Are men really these heartless creatures that only think about sticking there dick in things, with no other thought to how anyone else feels? if he plans on doing anything more with this chick than fucking her, my next question is...why is she dating material and i'm not?!
Well I hope he fucks her brains out. And I hope it fucking sucks.
( just for the record i'm never putting myself through this hell again)
i really really really really can never have a fuck buddy again. I saw him tonight with another girl and it killed me. I mean he has no obligation to me blah blah blah.. but seeing him be cuddly with another girl, holding hands... I know it shouldn't hurt, but it just does.
And the worst part is, that a part of me wishes that I didn't stop having sex with him because I loved waking up in the morning to his kisses, and that thought makes me feel even more pathetic.
This situation basically proves to me that he never felt any connection to me at all. That i was just another notch on his bedpost.
Are men really these heartless creatures that only think about sticking there dick in things, with no other thought to how anyone else feels? if he plans on doing anything more with this chick than fucking her, my next question is...why is she dating material and i'm not?!
Well I hope he fucks her brains out. And I hope it fucking sucks.
( just for the record i'm never putting myself through this hell again)
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Why?
Because we FOLLOWED THE RULES. A fuck buddy is not someone you go to sleep with, its someone who comes over, exchanges sex with you, and leaves. That's the fuck part. When the buddy part comes over, you can hang out, watch movies, get beers, talk. No sex, no kissing, no touching.
I have a few gal pals who hate the fuck buddy idea, but its because they don't get it. THIS IS NOT A BOYFRIEND. This is not love. This is sex.
Women want sex as much or more than men. I know more women who are rank ho's than guys. I know more women players. They say they want nice guys, etc, but when they're naked and sweating, the guy next to them is usually an overconfident machismo asshole. The nice guy is at home crying over why the girls are treating them that way.
Of course he's going to fuck her brains out. He's a player. Get it straight. You want a good fuck buddy? Follow the rules. You want a boyfriend who won't hurt you? Date a NICE GUY. Sure, you may not get wet at the thought of him (he doesn't drive a motorcycle, and he won't have a quickie in an elevator), but he won't break your heart either.
The rules are the rules. You wanted a boyfriend, or a serious relationship. Your emotional struggle is proof positive that this guy was NOT for you. But he was not an asshole either. Although if he was 100% true, he should have left after any sexual play.
The rules are the rules.