Straight Edge..... its what I am and its a big driving force in my life. Now I would never go out and date someone who smoked and I definitely sure as hell would never date anyone on drugs, but alcohol I try to be somewhat understanding.... at least to a casual drinker.
For my GF, I don't want to ever have her actually drunk, is that so wrong. And if a person does choice to overindulge, am I a bad person for not wanting that in my life at all. I live a life of self control, so if I am with someone should they share to some degree my beliefs on this. I guess I basically say that if you are drunk again for whatever, I don't want to be a part of it whatsoever. And by that I mean I wouldn't be sticking around.
Now I am not trying to change anyone, but I need certain things too. I wont think any less of them later if that was what they chose. But for me, I don't want it part of my relationship and it won't. Sorry, I like you but my beliefs and feelings must come first for me.
For my GF, I don't want to ever have her actually drunk, is that so wrong. And if a person does choice to overindulge, am I a bad person for not wanting that in my life at all. I live a life of self control, so if I am with someone should they share to some degree my beliefs on this. I guess I basically say that if you are drunk again for whatever, I don't want to be a part of it whatsoever. And by that I mean I wouldn't be sticking around.
Now I am not trying to change anyone, but I need certain things too. I wont think any less of them later if that was what they chose. But for me, I don't want it part of my relationship and it won't. Sorry, I like you but my beliefs and feelings must come first for me.
Your feelings and beliefs do come first.