vegas

Oh, I don't think there was anything gutsy about my answer, I just think that your question was posed in such a way that people weren't sure what would be an appropriate response. You asked them to talk about having sex with you and I think people thought perhaps you were looking for an ego boost, or maybe answers that would be specific to you personally and since they don't really know you they can't tell you what they'd like to do with you specifically during sex. If your question had been posed simply as, "what are some of your favorite sexual roleplay fantasies?" rather than having a lot of extra stuff about you in it you might have gotten the answers you were looking for. With the way it's phrased now I think it's making people uncomfortable because it's so personal and they're reluctant to talk about their sexual feelings for you. Also, I don't think being reluctant to talk about something so personal in a public forum is necessarily a bad thing or something to be frowned upon, just as a willingness to disclose intimate details of your sex life isn't necessarily a good thing or gutsy.

As it is, I like to hear about what different people do during sex just so I can feel less alone in my freakish desires, but I am absolutely repulsed by hearing what these same people want to do to me during sex, which can often be a conundrum. I shared in that thread what I like to do in hopes that other people would follow suit for you but in doing so I risked these people telling me that they'd like to engage in said fantasies with me, rather than coming up with their own for you.

I'm rambing.

The point is, I think that because you included yourself in peoples' role playing fantasies it made them uncomfortable and reluctant to share them. Note that my post didn't include what I would like to roleplay with you. That, my dearest, is for my eyes only, and perhaps others feel the same.