vajaejae

I thought we were gonna get coffee, but then you never responded to my texts!

Congrats, on all accounts!

Luh yew.

yay for new tats!!

dude...VaJaeJae...that name just made me laugh out loud hahaha awesome

what's up?

Hi, thanks for the comments on my blog! I'm glad I awed you. For the tat, hmmmm, I didn't think it would look trampy at all. But now that I think about it, it is getting pervasive around the city. It's almost like everyone is calling attention to that. However, I was thinking on another option, how about at the base of your back? Somewhere way above your butt, but righ on the midle of your back? That way, it's more subtle, it's not flashy, and the only way someone is gotta see it is if they know you intimately or if you are in a beach. Plus, I think that would look hot in some way. It's far more "you've gotta know me to get what you see". Almost like discovering a secret.

zomg expiration! come back to us soon

lol that rules; you must buy bth shirts. i dont think i could away with the 2nd one id probably get my ass kicked. camping is fun...just not in texas in the summer! its unheard of to go camping and not be slightly drunk.

I was driving through town and saw a bunch of obnoxious brats at a birthday party and thought of you immediately. So I'm leaving some love.

Holla for that Brazilian Day. I love going to that and shakin' it.

do you have a dddddddddddddaaaaaaaaaaaaattttttttttteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee?

Lol, youre right, I did.

yay for meeting you this weekend love!!! yay for smoking together!!! we better see each other soon xoxoxo

It's a difficult situation. Depression is a nasty devil and causes people to not seem like themselves anymore, become unmotivated and uninterested. From what you're describing, he's definitely suffering from some kind of depression. He seems to have what I call controllable depression - meaning that as you concluded, the causes are things going on in his life that he can control and fix.

Is it a simple lack of motivation? Maybe. He feels helpless and powerless despite the fact that he isn't. How to convince him of that fact isn't something I know the answer to. You've tried to help him but it doesn't seem to have had an effect. I'd say try and set up something small that's a sure win for him but that's hard to both find and pull off successfully.


If it's possible, he should seek some sort of professional assistance. Talking about his current situation with a neutral third party would hopefully help him sort things out in his mind. Hopefully it would.

I really wish I could have been more helpful since I know how horrible depression is and what it does to people. It's difficult.

My advice to you is to join the girls only group once youve been here for a month, (Which is in a few days) get some input from girls who have been through this, and obviously, you know how I feel about everything... The rest is up to you my golden child.

welcome, hope to meet you camping.

New blog soon plz.