Heres my 2 cents on this: I am turning 35 and just got divorced in November. I spent several years traveling the world in the military living my life like Peter Pan. It was fabulous. But then I met a girl that was safe and rooted and I decided to change my adventurous ways to be with her. We spent 6 years together and yes the divorce happened because she was using me and cheating on me but when all was said and done, the thing that killed me the most was I sat down and realized that I sacraficed that adventerous part of me for her and lost out on 6 years of being me for nothing. My vote is live your life! Security is over rated. And believe me, there are people just like you out there in the world that someday you will meet on some grand adventure and then maybe, just maybe spend the rest of your lives on adventures together...
It is snowing today.........I'm off from work...........I think I'll just sit home and watch TV and do a couple responsible things like actually read my south beach diet book
oh, and people whispered about my mom being gay (which she is) but they assumed that I was too. Which I'm not.
highschool was hellish. I got good grades, and on the outside, seemed to get along with everyone, but I didn't party, didn't do drugs, was an athlete and in vocal jazz.