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you can get loans to include the purchase and the rehab you know

if the house cost 5K and needs 80K worth of work you could get a mortgage for 85K which would probably come out to about 700-900 per month

good luck

I love oral sex and ice cream! Thanks for the comment

Anytime! xo

i looks like i missed some drama. i hope things work out for you guys.

Ok this seems like Im walking into a boy-bashing session, but Il put my two cents in. Im a guy and no I dont have all the answers but Ill try and explain a bit.

Nobody likes being snooped on, male or female. I never listen to my girlfriend cell phone messages or check out where she has been surfing on he 'net. I tell her that I look at porn occasionaly, but I would not want her snooping top far into that. Sometimes I want to look at women who are not like her, or read stories that invove things that she isnt onto, but to tell her that I like to look at skinny dark haired girld giving blowjobs would not be good for anybody. I dont want to leave her (or have an affair with) a skinny dark haired girl that gives head, I just like to fantasize about it.

OTOH, you husband has responsabilities to you that include being your only sexual partner, and your partner and moral support. Having a baby is hard on your body and spirit. It is his job to love you and tell you that your beautiful and wonderfull and how much he appreciates the sacrifices that you have made having a baby with him.

He also needs to control his temper. If he had said, "Honey it makes me feel crepy when you look at where I surf" Instead of "fuck you" he probably would have gotten a lot further.

In our house morning (when my son isnt home) are our "relationship" times. no 'net, no newspaper reading just talking and cuddleing and occasionaly sex. Maybe you should ask for some of that- a time that works with your schedaule where it is all about connecting.

Jen used to do this thing that drove me nuts, where she woudl say that she wanted to spend time with me and then do the crosswords by herself. It made me incredably upset because I felt like a lap dog. We canceled our daily paper subscription and took care of that problem.

We are going to try and do counseling pretty soon too, becaus eovertime relationships devlope bad habits that need fine tuning. So I agree that is the way to go. I would add that breaking up with the father of your child is a big deal, and it leads to its own set of pains and heartaches. As a non custodial parent, I would not advise accept as a lat resort.

Thats my opinion anyway. Ill put my flame retardent suit on now.

I just turned 29 and started to think about things like these. But I actually feel younger that my age. I've gone through my yearbook a couple of times and have seen a couple of people I went to school with. I even went to my high school reunion and it sucked!

Hey, thanks for the comments and have fun in NY.

Same dress? HAHA wow! That's funny! I have no idea who the designer is, but it's a WAY expensive dress that I bought in the fashion district in NYC... there's this huge building, just known as 1358 broadway, that has big designer shops... that dress retails at $2500 and I bought the thing for $675! WOO HOO! I'm psyched about the little one... thanks! Married life rocks, doesn't it?

As for you fantasizing about my profile pic:
That was an emote orgasm

If you are ever in town we must grab ass together at DKM shows. I can get one side and you can get the other but Marc is all mine.

Feeling hot? You are hot damn it! Feel free to seek refuge from the stress of everyday life in my cleavage!



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*heart on you*

Visit soon, I'm bored and being irresponsible. Like sleeping till past noon, etc. i start a new job next week, yay. Give a call whenever. Where's ED on this site???

I hear ya about the kids vs. wanting to be wild thing. I think it's normal to still want to go out and have fun, even after kids. And you are still very young, so it's even more understandable. Like you said, you just have to find a middle ground - and go for it with the hair dying and such!!!

I like the new pic.

i've totally laid out our budget for the next 5 months. i hope we can stick to it. it would be nice to start a saving account.

the things little ones find funny makes me re-think what i think is funny.

i like the new pic

Well, my boobs could use some lotioning and it's always more fun to have a pretty lady do it for me.

Hope everything goes well on your trip!

Awww. I think some hot female lovin' would solve all your problems.

i used to get messages like that all the time on faceparty and face-pic. I was like, "is this a joke"