spooky520

Really upset and confused. My girl who I have been with for five years is really acting strange. She started a new job as a manager with alot more responsibility whigh is cool as it was what she wanted. The problem is that she works lots and lots of hours, I never see her anymore. She tells me she loves me, but that it is just not fair to me that she doesn't have the time to see me and that she is never around. I tell her that its ok, i love her and that we can work it out and that i will wait till she gets things going and life can return to normal. This is fine for awhile but then she never calls or anything. Her cell phone which she has to use for work has a huge bill so she wants to wait till after nine pm to call so that it doesn't cost anything. I understand this but she hasn't been calling. I asked her about it and she says that she and her daughter have been going to bed before nine because they (she ) is really tired. OK i can understand that also. This is really driving me crazy. I tell her today that I have been patient and think that I have been very understanding about everything, but if you love or care about someone then you should take at least 5 minutes out of the day to let that person know that you care/love them. Let them know. This is all I ask, a phone call with her telling me that she cares about me and loves me is all that I have asked for, is this too much? Is it sellfish? I don't know, I dont think so. Here I am thinking of just saying fuck it all and just letting go. Problem is that I do love her but it is getting harder and harder each day to maintain. Don't know what to do. Maybe I should just look for a steady boodie call and say fuck the rest. Who knows. It might work out.

Help me with some insight...I could definalty use the help.