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I send you lots of good vibes and kisses.

Its good to acknowledge self-sabotaging behaviors before they happen. I think some people often are unaware that they push others away until its too late. Remain conscious and responsive to the needs of your relationship and all will be fine (that goes for the both of you). Being scared is only natural, I'm terrified when first get involved in a relationship, it's a big deal because you've let yourself be open and vulnerable. Just let your partner know you're scared and why, lest you appear distant and uncommunicative or overly nervous, otherwise the relationship can spiral out of control. I'm rooting for you!

Hmm sounds naughty, one can only wonder as to what type of party that's going to be like. Have fun at the soiree. (The sound clip is from Weird Science).

Some say you have to invite a vampire in before it can draw blood and suck you of your soul. Yet instead of always being on guard against the evil succubus' and incubus' of life, it is preferable to remain open and receptive, lest we become crotchety old men and old maid spinsters full of bitterness at life. If only there were some form of defense, some amulet of light, to turn away the darkness and draw instead something bright. Maybe just a garlic clove necklace will do though, it's powerful smell would certainly ward away most anything. (Just remember to take it off from time to time).

You're welcome, and thank you in return. Life is full of bizarre circumstance and it's tough enough trying to just get through it without sorting through all the problems you're likely to encounter along the way. I've found that it becomes immeasurably easier if you remain honest to yourself and focus on the positive elements of a situation rather then to toil over those that will only cause you further suffering. I hope all is well (or at least a little better)... So, how's the puzzle coming along for you?

Nice to know someone is having some fun around here. News??? Inquiring minds want to know. (Also anonymous nosey people).

Good fer yer... I'm in the opposite sit-chi-yay-shun... I think I'm on the verge of a break and it sucks. I'm completely exhausted trying to find common ground with emotionally detached people. I realize it's not her fault, she's dealt with some bad times, but I'm not going to continue being a victim of her coldness. It's not what love should feel like. Sigh... Why can't people just be up front and honest without letting you become a "waste of time"? Its frustrating and cruel.

This is actually pretty minor for what else is going on. My step-mom who just married my dad (they've been together for over 10 years) just came out of remission. She had breast cancer before and now she has ovarian. It sucks, I can't imagine a more undeserving person (not that anyone deserves such a thing). They were so happy after they came back from Hawaii and now this.

Finally, someone has been fucking with me (letting air out of my car tires, sabotaging my bike another day, and recently I found a screw driven into my car flattened car tire). I don't know for sure who is doing it, but I don't have enough time out of work to make enemies... I'm a good person, if I knew what I did to warrant such maliciousness then maybe I could understand why, but I try and avoid making enemies. There are some sick people out there and I just don't get it. Ack, sorry. No one likes to have someone complaining on their journal.

Well, good luck with the new one and thanks for the hug. It sure sounds like you've been on the ups, let's keep it there.

What is it that you want?

Because of fear. Fear of rejection, fear of success, fear of one's unworthiness to get what they want... Empower yourself and ask, no DEMAND that you get what you want... That is unless, of course, you don't really need it. But if you need it, then go for it and don't take no for an answer. If you can't get exactly what you need, try something different for a while and then maybe your needs will change.

To be honest, I could also use a little of my own advice, but after reading it, it sounds really corny, like something an out of touch motivational speaker would say to a bunch of disaffected teens. Well, what does one say to disaffected adults who are too cynical to fall for that type of B.S.??? I have trouble getting what I want too... Undoubtedly, my life would be in a much better place if I could effectively assert myself. Perhaps it's easier to hope for the best for others, cheering them along and rooting for them throughout life. Maybe the type of support you give will one day be received in return. Who knows for sure, but it doesn't hurt to have friends who believe in you but can still be honest enough to let you know when you are "tilting at windmills"... The hardest part is learning to accept those things that you cannot change, it can be like facing a wall between you and your dreams. On the other hand, such barriers may be self-imposed, merely serving to deceive and cause doubt. Often, I wish that I knew the magic words to dissolve such doubts to be replaced with the type of foolhardy confidence that would allow me to believe anything is possible, to realize my dreams if only I dared to reach...

You are a really beautiful woman, your smile is intoxicating

It's good to be back.

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*hugs*

I know the feeling.

ha haaa

ha haaaaa!! excellent!!

i wana go!!

Those are hot!

I love your shoes.. and that restraint or/and lifting device is naughty thought inducing