skydancer

Thanks for the input. Yes I am definately looking for answers!

Its not that I dont want her to have them cause I do, I know she uses them and needs them as I do, if I didnt want them to know about it I would not have told them, its just they will dislike something until we like it or buy it then they have to find better and always talk about how much better it is. Oh well Im doing better with it today I have reminded my self that wants and needs are different and that true happiness comes when you want only what you need. I want to set good examples for my self my kids and my hubby so I will make no more of a big deal about this. Thank you so much for all of your kind words