wow i have not been on here in YEARS!!!!! Well update. I was divorsed in 05 lived a grand life from then till now. Finshed school to do hair. I have been working out of the house now since 05 and an engaged to me married to a great man in october. Its funny how life takes us on an up and down road. so...
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Well it has been a sad shitty weekend for me. It is so sad since the weekend has so much potential. Friday was sad because my super sweet super nice SUPER cute brother in law didnt want to leave and we didnt want Im to go but he had to goso sad. Then I went on a car trip yesterday and well my car the...
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obey:
Happy birthday!!!
I was think I should update so hear it goes. Well my new roommates/ family members will be here soon and I am so excited. I have been working very hard to get the little walking in closet ready, I dont want him to feel like hes in a closet so I panted it and took down all the bars and selves and removed the...
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Ok so not only did we get to KEEP the car....but we have a much better interest rate then originally...ITS my car now...WOOT.
I went the Me First and the gimmie gimmies concert on Saturday it was great.. I made one HUGE mistake though I stopped by my favorite piercing/ tattoo shop, I wanted to look at tattoos and got my nipple repeirced then I...
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I went the Me First and the gimmie gimmies concert on Saturday it was great.. I made one HUGE mistake though I stopped by my favorite piercing/ tattoo shop, I wanted to look at tattoos and got my nipple repeirced then I...
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skydancer:
Wooohooo!!! Great news on the car!
Some people buy things on impulse... you get your nipple pierced!
Are you going to share it with us?
It sounds like your ex-friend has problems of her own. I hate it when that happens.
Sorry to hear you'll be sleeping alone....we could fix that (oops, was that my outside voice?
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Some people buy things on impulse... you get your nipple pierced!
Are you going to share it with us?
It sounds like your ex-friend has problems of her own. I hate it when that happens.
Sorry to hear you'll be sleeping alone....we could fix that (oops, was that my outside voice?
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ash:
oh jesus, I know exactly how it feels to lose some friends for NO reason at all. its the worst feeling in the universe .. and Im really sorry to hear abt your loss. In this day and age .. its so fuckin hard to meet/make REAL friends. I guess its because we're all adults now. Its almost like .. if you didnt grow up with someone, a REAL friendship isnt possible. 
Maybe aquantences .. but not the really good friends that you keep with you until u die, the ones u share secrets with and all that jazz 
what convention are u going to that u need costumes?
Maybe aquantences .. but not the really good friends that you keep with you until u die, the ones u share secrets with and all that jazz
what convention are u going to that u need costumes?
Well it is Friday night and even though my concert I have been waiting for is tomorrow I dont want Saturday to come. I just know it is going to be a sad day. Have I expressed how much I hate financing things, it was drives the market up, there would never be a 30k car if it were not for financing or 800k homes....
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zero:
Wow, it must be really hard being a car salesman. I don't think I could ever do it, I'd probably just yell at that person that had been staring at the car for about 5 hours and just tell them to fucking buy it!!! 
ash:
maaaaaaan, that would make me feel so terrible!! Jesus, Im so sorry darling, its got to be so hard for you to get something so nice then have to give it away. *sigh* Well, I guess you can look at the bright side, eh? At least you have a car, right?
OH my god so I was board out of my mind yesterday. Mt hubby was working late and I wasnt gonna get to work out so I was sitting in front of the computer looking through all the stock of the Game Stop for a few games I wanted, I wanted the world of war craft strategy guide and every one was out. Well I...
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skydancer:
What concert are you going to? Hope you have a great time!
skydancer:
How are you doing? I hope things are going well for you!
Oh my god Im such a nerd I have been looking high and low for this video game. If the 19 year old version could see me now I would have slapped the shit out of me LOL letting my hubby turn me into a nerdy gammer girl. Its called Disgaea: Hour of Darkness and I HAVE TO HAVE IT . Ok I use to...
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skydancer:
Nod... I can understand wanting to add a wife
How goes the search for Disgaea?
How goes the search for Disgaea?
ash:
lol, well I was going to suggest amazon .. but it appears you already know that one. 
I think you're gonna be stuck paying regular price for this one, girl
I think you're gonna be stuck paying regular price for this one, girlSo Im pissy today and Im sad to admit that it is for a very petty reason. Im jealous. There I said it, I hate being like this it just make me more sad that I cant be happy for my friend. Ok here is the storey I have a good friend and we always get along fairly well (kinda like sisters we fight but...
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skydancer:
Ah...I've not watched much (hardly any, actually) anime.
Yeah...they put the first season of FK out about 1.5 years ago, and released the second season just a couple of months ago... I'm hoping that enough people buy the first two so that they actually release the final season as well!
Did you see the Battlestar Galactica miniseries that Sci Fi did in 2003? If so, did you see the Firefly cameo in it? During a scene on Caprica (where Roslyn is meeting with her doctor) they show a view out the huge glass wall with several ships flying back and forth...one of them is a Firefly!
What games do you like on XBox? I've been playing a lot of Halo2, and my daughter was just visiting and we played a bit of Crimson Skies online...
Yeah...they put the first season of FK out about 1.5 years ago, and released the second season just a couple of months ago... I'm hoping that enough people buy the first two so that they actually release the final season as well!
Did you see the Battlestar Galactica miniseries that Sci Fi did in 2003? If so, did you see the Firefly cameo in it? During a scene on Caprica (where Roslyn is meeting with her doctor) they show a view out the huge glass wall with several ships flying back and forth...one of them is a Firefly!
What games do you like on XBox? I've been playing a lot of Halo2, and my daughter was just visiting and we played a bit of Crimson Skies online...
skydancer:
I want to get DDR... I enjoy playing Crimson Skies...especially online. I haven't played any of the others recently.
Ok so I went to the library today to try and find the book the 5 love languages Of course it was checked out and not due back till the 9th but a few books down from where the book would have been was a book that caught my eye How the stay lovers while raising your children now not to say that my hubby...
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skydancer:
There are two very different things being talked about here.
When you look at the 18+ years of parenting, if you sacrifice your life for your children you will end up resenting them long before the 18 years is up (and it really won't stop there, either). I think that's what he's talking about when he says to live your life with your children.
You always make sacrifices for those you love. But you have to balance that with actually living your life, too. When you place your kids as #1, all the time, you subjugate your lives to theirs, and that is not healthy.
However, that doesn't mean you give up all things where you do something you wouldn't normally do. In some things you do make their priority #1. Go ahead and coach soccer, or scrounge the money for the ballet lessons. But also take that class you've been wanting to take for yourself, or have the night out with your girlfriends. Occasionally park your kids with a friend or relative and you and your partner take a weekend away.
Make each and every person in your family the #1 priority sometimes.
As for the latter comment about saving a child from the onrushing car... That is a completely different thing. In that instant it has nothing to do with how you'll feel in 18 years. That is an entirely different sacrifice, and one which is made very often even by the most selfish of people and who's worth more, or higher priority really doesn't play much of a role. Heroism is about doing what's necessary in a moment's need no matter the cost.
When you look at the 18+ years of parenting, if you sacrifice your life for your children you will end up resenting them long before the 18 years is up (and it really won't stop there, either). I think that's what he's talking about when he says to live your life with your children.
You always make sacrifices for those you love. But you have to balance that with actually living your life, too. When you place your kids as #1, all the time, you subjugate your lives to theirs, and that is not healthy.
However, that doesn't mean you give up all things where you do something you wouldn't normally do. In some things you do make their priority #1. Go ahead and coach soccer, or scrounge the money for the ballet lessons. But also take that class you've been wanting to take for yourself, or have the night out with your girlfriends. Occasionally park your kids with a friend or relative and you and your partner take a weekend away.
Make each and every person in your family the #1 priority sometimes.
As for the latter comment about saving a child from the onrushing car... That is a completely different thing. In that instant it has nothing to do with how you'll feel in 18 years. That is an entirely different sacrifice, and one which is made very often even by the most selfish of people and who's worth more, or higher priority really doesn't play much of a role. Heroism is about doing what's necessary in a moment's need no matter the cost.
ash:
yes of course Id save my child over my husband, are u crazy? that book is crazy!!! lol!! Im a mom and NO ONE comes before my kid .. ever!
Wow I have a need to update today and yet I dont think I have anything to say, Sigh. Well my son got sick I felt so bad for him I have not seen him this sick in along time. Why is it that kids never realize that we are trying to help them. He is 5 years old and I put vicks on...
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ash:
I am like ... the master of digital editing, and I couldnt fix them ... so theyre trashed.
awww man ... divorce has got to be the hardest thing in the world to go through. That poor kid ... wont being so far away from his mommy be a BAD thing?? I mean, thats an ENTIRE country!!
awww man ... divorce has got to be the hardest thing in the world to go through. That poor kid ... wont being so far away from his mommy be a BAD thing?? I mean, thats an ENTIRE country!!
zero:
Thanks! Hair cut's can change a whole lot about a person and how they feel about themselves. I guess you can call me a hair schitzo. I have to change my hair at least 6 times a year. And I'm not just talking trim it, I mean change the whole style and cut. Which is what I'll be doing pretty soon here. I was trying to grow out my hair, but skrew it, I'm young still I may as well enjoy myself while I can.
Hope your friend has a better time in the states, a move always helps.
Thanks! Hair cut's can change a whole lot about a person and how they feel about themselves. I guess you can call me a hair schitzo. I have to change my hair at least 6 times a year. And I'm not just talking trim it, I mean change the whole style and cut. Which is what I'll be doing pretty soon here. I was trying to grow out my hair, but skrew it, I'm young still I may as well enjoy myself while I can.
Hope your friend has a better time in the states, a move always helps.
So I went to see a speaker for this class I have to take, and I was pleasantly surprised at how interesting she was to me. She spoke of love languages. Everyone speak a main love language and a secondary love language, and this is how they show and receive love. A lot of problems in relationship (couples, kids, and friends) is that two people...
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ash:
yeah the guy had no feedback, so I was concerned. then he asked me to pay him by using western union .. and I asked AMAZON abt that and they told me to basically have nothing to do with this guy, so I didnbt buy the camera. it sucks .. because I really thought I was going to get this really cheap camera
ash:
oooooooooh, Ive read that book! the 7 languages of love .. it really opened my eyes to the very different ways some ppl show their affection for one another. Great read!
OH my god i am so happy to be back here i had a laps and well didn't pay for my membership and I missed it sooo much. But I am back now and super excited. Well a quick update I have become obsesed with wanting to join a local roller derby team. I didn't make the cut in the last tryout so i have...
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ash:
thats so funny you mentioned that because several of my friends just joined a roller derby!! I thought rollerskating was for kids, but apparently not!