sketchless

Hmmm...well, I'm not one to cast doubt on to a relationship just because it's long distance. Hell, Karen and I spent over 2 years apart while we were dating (about 2000 miles apart), so I know the feelings that come with this.

But, and there always seems to be a but, it just seems a little...I don't know...sterile? I can definitely see what you mean about having fallen in love as friends, and how this would be a great place to start off in dating (after all, that's how Karen and I started). The thing is...well, where's the romance in deciding to start dating via text? **shrug**

Okay, it could just be me. I'm a hopeless romantic, and not everyone is looking for romance. I'm sure this is why you are feeling a tad ambivilent about this. Your status is basically undefined. Is this exclusive? Is he serious? Are you serious? Are you trying to prevent losing a friend drifting away by changing the relationship? These are probably all questions going on through your mind right now.

Is it a healthy relationship? Well, that's harder to define. On the surface...probably not. Sorry. But (again with the buts ), that's based on a surface analysis, only what I know so far. I guess it could be considered healthy if it makes you happy and gives you that warm fuzzy in your belly. Especially at the beginning of a relationship you should be ecstatic. Does it?

**shrug**

Just my thoughts. I hope they are more helpful then distressing to you, 'cause that's my intent.

Be happy.

danke, mir gehts gut. die sonne lacht, doe biergrten machen auf, morgen machen wir nen kleines sommerfest und die welt dreht sich. aber bei dir hrt sich alles ein wenig schrg an. wenn du dich nicht verliebt fhlst solltet ihr das vielleicht lassen, aber wenn da doch mehr is kann da was ganz groartiges draus werden, denn wer kennt die macken und eigenschaften besser als ein freund und wer wsste besser worauf er sich da einlsst??? deswegen: geh raus, drink einen und lass dir zeit.... hoffe das war jetzt nich zu viel dr. sommer geslze. liebe gre aus dem sonnigen mnchen!!!!