Thank you both for your comments. Jennyxcore, the problem isn't so much that I wasn't fun enough, but rather that she would not have fun with me... go figure.

LaceyK, I sat home tonight watching reruns with my kitty on my lap, and came to a rather stark revelation... many things may be taken from a man, but a man's kitty, like his hat and his beer, are sacrosanct, and cannot be touched by anyone.

As for her reasons for wanting the keep the ring, I honestly don't know. Certainly, I am the one who believes in the validity of marriage, and thus the symbolism of the ring. She doesn't believe in the former, and I cannot see why she should stick to the latter.

Sounds like a sower girl.....

Your better off without out the ring for now. I'd trade the gold and gain your soul back.

Kitties the deal breaker........Tell her to get another pussy.