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Are You a Moderator or an Abstainer?

Often, we know wed have more long-term happiness if we gave up something that gives us a rush of satisfaction in the short-term. That morning doughnut, that impulse purchase, staying up too late watching TV.

A piece of advice I often see is, Be moderate. Dont have ice cream every night, but if you try to deny yourself...
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cassy:
hopefully we can catch up tomorrow do you plan to be online at all? how are you feeling?
i have muchos to tell u but am more interested in what you have to say to be honest you've been really mysterio about all these things and i want to know what's up.
wishing you well and sending you love, Cass
grayb:
I haven't been online much the past few days - but I've been thinking about you, and sending positive vibes.
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10 tips for happiness


1. Dont start with profundities.
Rather than jumping in with lengthy daily meditation or answering deep questions of self-identity, start with the basics, like going to sleep at a decent hour and not letting yourself get too hungry. Science backs this up; these two factors have a big impact on happiness.

2. Do let the sun go down on anger.
I...
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big_boy:
I wish I would have done #2 more............ frown
wsoxfan:
Once again, you've hit the nail on the head. The only one I have doubts about is #3. I've found that trying to act cheerful when feeling badly is first of all, very difficult, and second of all, tends to make me feel even worse. This is probably because It hurts me to know that I'm not rteally happy and have to fake it.



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I found this parody on witchcraft on a Pagan site recently - and just had to share it. Largely because of the Witch Wannabees that I have seen on this site and the bad names they give those who have really studied their Craft with good intentions rather than just for appearances. So please take this in the spirit in which it's intended. Remember -...
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skep:

And don't forget getting those tatoos of the usual witchcraft symbols without really understanding their meanings.


Made me chuckle. biggrin

sweetbutch:


my daughter the wannabe has told me that tonight is an important holiday for wiccans.


she is upstairs with another 12 year old doing spa facials with organic avocados and almonds


what that has to do with the rebirth of spring i dunno



be well witchy woman

she's got the moon in her eye--yis


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Myth - Money Can't buy Happiness

Well, money cant buy happiness, but it sure can buy lots of things that contribute mightily to happiness.

As the current financial downturn is making vividly clear, money contributes to happiness mostly in the negative; the lack of it brings much more unhappiness than possessing it brings happiness. (Good health is the same way its easy to take money...
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big_boy:
NO IT CAN"T
cassy:
girlfriend are you settled in yet? you know we need to catch uppppp smile
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Things Guys think Girls should know*****

Were not as big of perverts as you think we all are.

No matter what you say, your ex-boyfriend is an asshole.

We like you to give us hugs and kisses sometimes too.

Dont argue with us when we call you beautiful.

Dont treat us like crap, what goes around comes around.

We know youre pretty, thats one of...
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cassy:
hey girl i'm back can't wait to catch up with you just lemme know when biggrin
big_boy:
SO SO SO true
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lilli:
Thank you.

I will happily kiss you! kiss
wsoxfan:
I'd love to share a platonic kiss with you, and it doesn't even have to be St. Patrick's Day.
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Commandment #2: Act as I Would Feel.

Everyone from contemporary scientists to ancient philosophers to religious leaders agrees: a KEY to happiness is having close relationships with other people. As Bertrand Russell pointed out, "To like many people spontaneously and without effort is perhaps the greatest of all sources of personal happiness."

But what if you're having trouble liking other people? Sometimes, when I meet...
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pureblu326:
it was a beautiful day indeed...
nene:
Thank you so much kiss

I've been haunting Geezer chat a lot lately - talking about anything and everything. I've damn near pissed myself from laughing so hard biggrin
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MY First Commandment - "Be Sherrillee"

Being Sherrillee, and accepting my true likes and dislikes, also means that I have to face the fact that I will never visit a jazz club at midnight, or hang out in artists studios, or jet off to Paris for the weekend, or pack up to go on safari on a spring dawn. I wont be admired for my...
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wsoxfan:
It's so nice to hear that I've inspired you at times. I'm sure it hasn't been nearly as often as the other way around. It's a good feeling to know that I'm cared about, whether by my friends on SG , my family, or anyone else. It makes it easier to continue to fight.
junnie:
Hey AAOOO is gonna be okayoooo! I love Anthony Keatus. I hope I spelled his name right! XO
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Time Tested Beauty Tips

For attractive lips, speak words of kindness.

For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.

For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.

For beautiful hair, let a child run his or her fingers through it once a day.

For poise, walk with the knowledge you'll never walk alone.

People, even more than things, have to be restored,...
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cassy:
hey mama miss ya hope alls well.
wish we could have caught up this week, been so busy myself.
going to boston tomorrow until thursday hope we can catch each other at some point *hugs*
gedro:
I love the picture you let on my blog ^^
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This may be the best Living Will I've ever seen....


I,____________, being of sound mind and body, do not wish to be kept alive indefinitely by artificial means.

Under no circumstances should my fate be put in the hands of pinhead politicians who couldn't pass ninth grade biology if their lives depended on it, or lawyers/doctors interested in simply running up the bills.

If a...
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carmelita:
^ Awesome blog! biggrin

I'm a total beach bunny too. I become a rabid, depressed, raging bunny in the winter. mad Baaaaaa!! I need sunshine to survive properly. I gotta get the fuck out of Jersey. Like NOW!

Anywho, hope you're havin a good day, hun!
MUCH love!
kiss
wsoxfan:
There's something about you that sets you apart from most others, including myself. While you don't post blogs on any predictable schedule, they always pack a whallop. They're all so thought provoking.
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How to Deal with Idiots


Albert Einstein once said, "Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I'm not sure about the universe." But it doesn't take a genius to realize we are all surrounded by idiots. Not only that, but we are all idiots at some point. Dealing with this common human condition is unavoidable, but some ways of dealing with it...
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wsoxfan:
If you don't see something coming and it hits you like a ton of bricks, does that make you an idiot. If the answer is, yes, then I'm an idiot.
cassy:
i'm around on yahoo, lookin for ya smile
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wsoxfan:
I didn't realize that this was a government job. Everything is much clearer now that I know that. Try to make the best of the situation.
wsoxfan:
It's good to know that at least one aspect of government is in good hands. Best of luck.