I'm so sexually frustrated. I tell her how I feel cause she says we need to talk out the problems, but in the end it's just her telling me what I want is stupid, and me not talking about it anymore so I don't start another fight about it.
We play with toys, try different positions, and "talk" about doing things, but there's just no follow through on her part, and that sucks. I've tried sweet talk and soft kisses, lingerie and rose petals, romantic weekends with hot tubs and body massage, but nothing seems to work. I don't want to beg or force her to do things, I definitly don't want pity sex, and I don't always want to have to initiate it. I would be happy with the simplest of stuff, like doing it in the garage or kitchen, or her taking control and fucking me, and I would love for her to just out of the blue to get on her knees pull it out of my jeans and take me into her mouth.
We've been together for 7 years, I very much love her, and I want to get past this.
I would love some advice or ideas, please.
We play with toys, try different positions, and "talk" about doing things, but there's just no follow through on her part, and that sucks. I've tried sweet talk and soft kisses, lingerie and rose petals, romantic weekends with hot tubs and body massage, but nothing seems to work. I don't want to beg or force her to do things, I definitly don't want pity sex, and I don't always want to have to initiate it. I would be happy with the simplest of stuff, like doing it in the garage or kitchen, or her taking control and fucking me, and I would love for her to just out of the blue to get on her knees pull it out of my jeans and take me into her mouth.
We've been together for 7 years, I very much love her, and I want to get past this.
I would love some advice or ideas, please.