So, I did what I had been talking about. I went through my following list on IG and deleted any accounts where I hadn't had an actual conversation with the woman (and not just me commenting "you're beautifu!" and them saying "Aww, thanks!").
Again, there's absolutely nothing wrong with sex workers or women getting naked on the internet (if I didn't like that I wouldn't be here lol) but I did notice I was giving a lot of my time and energy to accounts that only saw me as a number, not a person.
So we shall see if by putting this out in the universe things change, or if in a year I'm looking up all those accounts and following them again 🙄🙈🤣 only time will tell 😉